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vanhoutenkirk 55 / M
"A dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste!! Can play some daytimes!"
Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
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Member Since: March 6, 2006

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vanhoutenkirk 55/M
Minneapolis, Minnesota
I'm your typical down-to-earth man, always treating people with respect and honesty. Experience-wise, I've done a few things, but I want to do a LOT more. I seek people not too far from my age, and not too far AWAY, so if you are over 40-50 miles away, it is unlikely we could meet for fun, unfortunately. Feel free to drop me a line and I will TRY to write you back as soon as possible, if I do not, PLEASE do not be offended, I mean no offense, I am very busy and cannot get on this site too often...AND !! A very willing photographer, capable and imaginative and with a good eye- I'll take pics of/for you if you like!! WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this!

My Ideal Person I need a pantie-loving friend or two (that enjoys ingerie like i do) to DISCREETLY enjoy occasional get-togethers, for SAFE mutually enjoyable fun, (hopefully with nylons and panties, etc!) ...I am Bi-curious-intensely!..I enjoy women, men, tv-ts men (!) toys, anal, oral, lite B&D, spanking ( I actually NEED a good firm spanking...and I'd love to return the favor!) and am willing to try nearly ANYTHING, if the situation was right...I stress the need for great discretion,
and I promise the same...I am a straight appearing,
average looking, clean,husky male; friendly, kind, gentle, a giving lover who is imaginative in bed... Far more of a top that bottom for anal, unless you are smallish... But I love toys/fingers/tongues and exploration...Mutual Oral while dressed up is THE BEST!
With a bit of notice, I can get out for meeting, I believe. Or, in some cases, I could host. ..Let's talk at least...

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
too many to list !! I'd luv to have a three-or-more experience,
with all participants being Bi- (or Bi-curious) I love
the Anne Rice "Beauty" trilogy- would like
to (gently ) experiment with scenarios like in those books...Outdoor
stuff is fun, like if someone had a private cabin for parties
!! I could go on and on...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
...Robin Meade fom CNN !! Or Megan Price, the busty babe who was the mom on the cancelled sitcom "Grounded
For Life" !!! Both of them have fantastic chests,
beautiful smiles, etc... I have a difficult time trying
to think of a male celeb that does much for me, but I guess John Cusack is sort of attractive, or maybe Dr. Kovach
from ER... I could see bi fun possibilities there, tho I
am not hung up on looks in general, more the person...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 55 / male
  • Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: November 1, 1968
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 7 in / 170-172 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: Some college
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: None
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