femme AF trans woman :). litigation attorney. a total smartass troll but very empathetic and affectionate. yes, I am a [B]REAL[/B] trans woman. I am NOT a crossdresser. I do not do this for fun (though being a girl is definitely WAY more fun :D). i do not ever present as a man; this is my life. my driver license says i am a woman. my birth certificate says i am a woman. every legal document reflects this change. (i'm sorry to have to drive this point home, but it is unfortunately necessary.) HRT since 8/16/16 so I've got my *Y* :). non-op, so yes, it's there, but i am definitely more sub/princess/brat. TOTAL bottom (Y). i don't plan on ever getting it removed, but i don't ever use it. [B]I DO NOT TOP, EVER. DO NOT ASK. [/B]

My Ideal Person i'm looking for a masculine straight man or a femme trans woman. i am not looking for crossdressers. unless you're living openly as a woman, i'm not at all interested sexually, though i am happy to speak with you if you are actually attempting to transition or have questions about the process.

if you are a man and are attracted to me, it's because you are STRAIGHT. you are attracted to a woman, not a man. if you tell me you're "not gay" or "straight-acting", you are clearly insecure and uncomfortable with your sexuality. sexuality is a spectrum anyway!

be taller than I am (I am 5'8"). if you're a man, be masculine. be hairy. be the man. the person should be more D than s, and should be assertive and take-charge.

i am not looking for random hookups. random sex with a person i do not know is entirely unappealing. i need some kind of basic connection with that person to get any enjoyment out of it. a relationship would be great, but i am not opposed to a FWB thing.

do not send me a dick pic in your first message.