I'm told that I'm laid back and a calm per. Steady. I like sailboats over motorboats, peace over noisemakers. I'm a professional in the business world and have steady work and a good salary. I follow Buddhism for what it teaches about attachment because I didn't want to always want more: a bigger house, a classier car, more stuff! As cliché as the phrase is I believe that life is what you make it--that is, you can go through the same life as the next per but decide to be happy or decide that it's all crap. Fake it 'til you make it if you have to. It at least helps buoy the people around you. I have a GF in another country and we only see each other a few weeks of the year (long story). Ideally, I find one per to be a fuck buddy, or perhaps a FWB. I need the physical connection and the sensuality and it would also be nice to have a companion once in a while for watching a movie or going to an event. And having one per makes this all more special. Frankly, I don't want a lot of partners. To me, foreplay is primo! I will like using my slow hands and mouth to discover all your lovely curves: Your neck, your beautiful back, your breasts, and that place where the ass crack just begins, and how the shoulder turns down to the arm. I think that clothing is underrated. A little mystery and shrouding with a simple dress or just a shirt intensifies the experience. If we get together, we'll have coffee first, or a beer. Maybe nothing more. But once we're alone I'll want plenty of time to peel off your clothing and kiss those soft shoulders, and inspect your spine and your neck, and...well you get it. If we're friends I'll open up face pics.

My Ideal Person You are positive and like to smile. You are open-minded and flexible and will keep our relationship as discreet as either of us needs it to be.

It would be fun to meet someone that is not native to North America. In my travels I've met many wonderful people from other cultures that it would be great to hook up with someone like that here in the States. Any race, any other country. Germany is a bonus since I am learning the language, but that's not a requirement for sure. Also those from Asian and African countries would be awesome.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet

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