I am educated, articulate, down to earth, curious, passionate and caring....also adventurous, energetic and playful...looking for safe fun! Enjoy hot, steamy, erotic and at times raw sexuality as much as anyone, but prefer to get to that point with someone that I find mentally and physically arousing. I would say that I tend to lean towards enjoying being in the more submissive role when it comes to the bedroom. Please understand that I do have a busy life, a demanding career, obligations and responsibilites apart from this site (as you should as well)..therefore at times it may take a while to respond.

My Ideal Person My free time is currently very limited so I am fairly selective when considering making a new friend or friends. I would expect you to be a professional, articulate, passionate, discreet, D/D free, respectful, honest with a great/wicked sense of humor...Someone who has his own interests, but can share mine and who would delight in both intellectual conversation and experiencing my affection physically, from being teased to seduced

The desired outcome is to avoid drama ...rather indulge our beings during the time we are able to discreetly share...

Also, honesty and respect is important...openess & honesty along with the ability to intelligently converse provides the comfort that ignites the spark that creates incredible sex...along with physical attractiveness.

I do have a strong preference when it comes to men and I know what turns me on the most. I have always been attracted to races other than my own. Love the look of dark skin touching mine. Perfect fantasy is a tall black man that knows how to take charge in the bedroom and is confident and appreciates a woman that knows what she wants.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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