Looking for a friend with benefits. Nothing more. I already have a life partner. No drama from me or you. I caregive 2 people, 3 cats, and work fulltime. It's time I do something for me. I'm not bad looking for mid 50s. I do work out when I can, trying to firm things up. Speaking of firm things, I'm no porn star in my pants, but it works just fine and I am a giver in other ways. I am college educated, can carry a conversation, quite nerdy (Star Wars!) and pretty cool if I may say so. I'm attracted to most women but especially for mocha and black goddesses. COVID vaccinated, and D&D free.

My Ideal Person Mature, down-to-earth, open-minded, understanding, clean and hygienic, a good talker and confident. Nerds are a plus! Especially loves mocha and chocolate ladies.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Kraftwerk, Kate Bush

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My fantasies usually involve threesomes or small group
sex, and being with a black or dark-skinned woman. Viva
chocolate!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc., Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be
discreet,

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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