We want to start by saying we have s and a very demanding work schedule, so our free time is very limited. Please respect the time we do have. If you are not interested, or have some rea why you wouldn't be able to play at that time, please just be up front with us. We much prefer getting a straight answer even if it's a rejection. We understand that a lot of this is about initial appearance and everyone has their own preferences. We are perfectly fine with being told "sorry you're not our type". And in exchange please be ok with us doing the same. It's not a condemnation of your perality, it's just... the initial hurdle. We've been married for over 10 years, and dated for 8 years before that. We've been in the lifestyle about 3 years now. We're slowly refining our preferences. We like couples (or single women) who we can hang out with in a club, play pool, and generally get along with on a social level. If that level of comfort is there, then we're very open to bedroom activities. We're slowly refining our preferences. We like couples (or single women) who we can hang out with in a club, play pool, and generally get along with on a social level. If that level of comfort is there, then we're very open to bedroom activities. We have small s so spontaneity isn't quite so easy. We're usually free at our place in the evenings, or we can meet at a club/bar/restaurant/your place if there's some advance planning. We're both tall. We tend to be shy and quiet at first, but once we get to know you we open up pretty easily. Our lady is bi-friendly; she likes to have a little play with the other woman from time to time, but her preference is for guys. Part of our play philosophy is that you can't know if you like something or don't like something until you've tried it at least once (well... there are some exceptions to that... blood, illegal acts, etc). So we're always interested in hearing suggestions. But our preferred method of play is same-room full swap.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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