Ethically non-monogamous I am a father, gamer, open minded and down to earth. Can be shy at first (in person) but open up quickly. I enjoy many activities outside the bedroom. The normal music, movies, video games, etc. I also enjoy outside activities as well such as camping, kayaking/canoeing, shooting pool, concerts, nature trails, bike riding (pedal), I really enjoy nature. I always try something once, if it sounds fun I am usually down to try. I am not about any drama and am 100% real, what you see is what you get. I am blunt and am usually to the point. I am not opposed to traveling, I'm looking for quality people. Distance is a detail. I have been in and out of the lifestyle for a while now and understand the ropes. I also know that single men are a dime a dozen, but none the less I am here. I am out to make lasting friendships and have fun along the way with like minded people. I enjoy the lifestyle and all it has to offer, including the atmosphere. I am respectful and always makes sure comfort is there. I understand boundaries. I am not looking to home wreck, or disrupt anything. Your relationships are just that. If I am to be included i understand that I am the extra and therefore expendable in that regard. I am not interested in any relationships other than Friends With Benefits. Where benefits all parties concerned. Again comfort is big with me.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for friends and fun. Fun in and out of the bedroom. Good conversations and good times with like minded people.

I have had threesomes, foursomes, more-somes, and of course one on one. I am straight and not interested in any male on male, however I do understand in some circumstances minor contact may happen. I have been to events and parties and I am not apposed to them but I prefer a private setting. As far as the bedroom is concerned I Can be a sensual or rough lover (depending the mood and situation) I adapt quickly. I'm very much a pleaser so giving oral is one of my favorite things to do, seeing a woman happy and satisfied is a huge turn on for me and I do enjoy doing it very much.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
too many to discuss here, lol

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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