Cannot answer e-mails or IM. Try oli underscore blanks at the why-who place. Would welcome e-mails. Please send a way to reach you. If I add you to my hotlist, it's to send a message to say "Hi". Fascinated with transgender ladies and would love to swap messages. Married, bi, 78 yo dirty ol' man from Tucson, AZ. Love to swap e-mails, tell stories, even a few lies and converse about almost anything. I enjoy music, reading, pets, cooking on the grill, camping, fishing, gardening, and swapping e-mails about just about anything. I retired from the military more years ago than I like to admit. In the course of my career we lived in Mississippi, East Texas, Taipei and Tainan Taiwan. Missouri, Alabama, Arizona and New Mexico. After retirement we made three more moves, finally landing in Tucson, AZ. I am a prostate cancer survivor and without a prostate, can no longer ejaculate. I lost 50% of the erection controlling nerves and have not had a normal erection since mid August, 2002. I also drip occasionally. To get an erection I use a penis pump and cock ring, which works fine. And, by the way, I can still have a magnificent orgasm.