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shimmer70 53 / 52 / C
"Just about time to update this profile...... isn't it? .... maybe next week!"
Fargo, North Dakota, United States
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Member Since: January 20, 2012

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shimmer70 53/C
Fargo, North Dakota
Looking forward to a weekend with friends......
Latest update.........We've been married for well over thir years now. We have also been enjoying this lifestyle for nearly three of those years. So, we are not new here. That means that we have done some experimenting, and have a much clearer idea of what we are looking for..... primarily couples. Hopefully, experienced couples..... We know that everyone has to start their journey somewhere. And we have been privileged to have been a "first" for a few...... but, we are at a point where we don't need drama, or the potential for misery, that sometimes follows a hasty decision to "do something different". Single males, please just leave us be.... Far too many of you have been assholes and ruined it for the nice guys out there, sorry. Ladies, you are always welcome....... Having said all of that, we are both able to play seperately if we wish. That does NOT mean that we will, but, we are secure enough in our marriage to know that, when all is said and done, we each hold the others' heart and will finish this part of our journey as we began it, together. If we are meeting people for the first time, she does not want to meet without him present. Sorry, but it is what it is. We have not done the cam thing yet........ just not to our taste. We really enjoy F(ace)2F(ace), as opposed to C2C. If you're interested in us, wink, flirt, email.... but, understand that it will be him responding initially. Why? Because his bullshit meter is usually spot-on. Some of you "couples" have already found that out. We have a great group of friends, and an expanding group of "buddies"..... Our "buddies" don't necessarily have to become our friends, but, it would be nice to have friends that we could play with regularly.When it comes to new "buddies", we don't really mind about your relationship status, as long as your "other" doesn't mind what you're doing. If you're in a shitty relationship, move along...... fucking other people won't solve your problems, save your marriage, or cure baldness, impetigo, or cancer. And we DEFINITELY don't want to get in the middle of any arguments!!! a pretty cool guy, if you were looking for someone to chat eith.

My Ideal Person We are looking for couples and women who enjoy the company of a couple of goofy dorks. We like people who can sing 70's/80's rock-n-roll love songs at the top of their voice. People who drink good beer. We'd rather meet at your favorite bar than some nightclub. Not looking for trendy, popular, cool people.... just people like us. She requires that men to be around 6 ft. tall and not particularly hairy, but personality counts for a lot.... He likes women...... We both like shaved/trimmed happy parts. The ability to laugh at yourself is very important, as we find ourselves doing that fairly often..... because we are dorks.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
we'll fill this out later.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Her: Gary Allan.... Him: Kate Beckinsale.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 53/52 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Fargo, North Dakota, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Marital Status: Married
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Our Trophy Case:
Birthdate: July 1, 1969 September 1, 1970
Travels to: Clarcksburg area, West Virginia, United States
Relocate?: No No
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm 5 ft 10 in
Body Type: Average Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs I don't use drugs
Education: Prefer not to say BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic Agnostic
Male Endowment: Long/Average N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 36 / 80 B
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper Blonde
Hair Length: Short Long
Eye Color: Brown Blue