o hai! well, what to say? i'm genderqueer/genderfluid/non-conforming/non-binary and various other "non-" classifications. i'm not all that concerned with what you've got between your legz. very much into discovering new people and ideaz (and pluralization with zz). i'm a sapiosexual so i'm more into your mind more than your lookz. i like to talk about ideaz, too (capitalization, (in)visibility, gender politics, poetry, cartoonz, sound, food, our body, to name a few). overlap of interest is incredibly complex. but i try to keep my preference & expectation minimal. i'm here to find people who are also interested in unlearning oppressive behavior. i think we might be able to start that with an open dialog around consent. we can hold safe space for each other while we process the un-comfort around our sexual desire. and then we move, i suppose, into blissful orgasmic utopia? well, with any amount of luck we can at least share a couple moments of orgasmic bliss.

My Ideal Person ...is someone who wants to share the process of moving away from un-comfortability in a safe and consensual way. oh, and you should probably smell good to me (and i should probably smell good to you).