Here's how I see things: you're either on here to get unbelievably abysmally terrible and awkward sex from complete strangers you're using to get off, or you're here to take the necessary patience and effort to chat up guys you might be interested in, meet for coffee with a mask on (there are lots of places with outdoor and indoor seating) and, after genuinely hitting it off as friends, gettin' it on after a nice meal, movie, or workout. Don't write me unless you're the latter... :) Me? I'm an unusual one, I know. I'm looking for friends/lovers--plural. Both in Ohio and around the country. I would like to drive around the continent to visit my new friends, and have them visit me (I live alone and have a big, awesome house with gym). That's why meaningful friendships and interactions, on the long term, are so important, not just fuck buds. I'm very young at heart--and body (most people still think I'm in my late 20s/early 30s). Serious working out, lifting, swimming, etc. are a big portion of my life, and I'm an extremely experienced and qualified personal trainer.

My Ideal Person is a guy who, like me, believes that physical intimacy/sexual lovemaking is God's greatest gift to man. Yet I've never had an std and I'm never going to get one--there are so many ways to be safe. And it begins and ends with genuine attraction, patience, maturity, and love.

I'm looking for guys who work out seriously (and no, "walking" doesn't count), eat right, don't smoke or do drugs, are on the younger side, and have an optimistic attitude about their lives.