We feel so fortunate to be part of this community of open, honest and vibrant people! When we met five years ago, we knew we would be committed to one another and wanted to explore the boundaries of our sexuality together--we were finally free to be. We’ve learned so much and have, over time, been able to define what being in the lifestyle means to us. It’s important that we acknowledge that there are many ways to celebrate consensual non-monogamy—all are acceptable--what follows is our preference: A healthy lifestyle is key for us and we are both fit and active, indoors and out! We spend half our time in Tampa Bay and the other half in an area north of Toronto. NOTE we do not use the instant messaging feature.

My Ideal Person The short answer is a loving couple who is open to enjoying the pleasures of the flesh, is creative, expressive and exploratory in their sexuality.

The long answer includes developing lasting friendships with people who understand the nature of being "free" without judgement. Socializing outside of the bedroom would be a plus and something we are attempting to cultivate. Creating a social group where we can be honest and open about all aspects of our life while maintaining discretion with those who do not share our interests is important going forward.

Specifically, by way of full disclosure in describing ourselves, R is a straight male who is comfortable in most settings he not bisexual or bicurious, however he is not concerned with close proximity play. He is a self-described sapiosexual and also a mix of sensualist and sexualist who delights in being watched and especially watching. He loves to explore new and interesting scenarios that take him and a partner to the outer limit of a consensual boundary. He thoroughly enjoys watching D as she challenges both men and women to participate in the discovery of new and boundless sexual energy knowing that she is R’s at the end of the evening. Always the gentlemen, it is essential that the other woman is a willing participant in our time together. If he gets a sense that she is taking one for the team or is in it to please her partner, our evening will take on a social vibe…which can also be stimulating, just in a different way. Like most men, he takes great pleasure in satisfying a woman and has made the most of our time together learning exactly how to do that.

D is an intimacy coach and tantra educator. She describes herself as ambisexual (meaning she enjoys pleasuring and being pleasured by another woman, but pairs romantically with men). She is very vocal about her desires and the manner in which she wishes to be aroused has been our experience that men can be intimidated by her presence she is definitely not for the faint of heart. Having said that, she tends to be in the role of submissive when playing with the masculine and the reverse when entwined with the feminine. She loves to have pleasure drawn out…the slow dance of seduction, kissing, arousal through touch and caress of those unexpected areas…watching her partner bring another woman to orgasm…teasing herself as two men languish over the body of another woman. Her kryptonite is a partner who understands the anatomy of arousal for women and can read the female body to know what is needed next rather than the same pat routine…note: She is rarely the same way twice should be stated that orgasm is not the goal, exploring the pleasure pathways is the goal. One of the perks of her work is not only knowing how to, but enjoying playing with a soft-on--hardness does not dictate the level of pleasure a man experiences. Some of her most erotic and explosive experiences have been with sexually conscious men who were aware of the power of their masculine energy. Having said that, it is important that you have the ability to achieve an erection.

As with any friendship, chemistry and common ground is important. We would love to meet you for dinner or drinks to see if it's a good fit all the way around. We never play on the first date choosing rather to allow each couple to take time to consider, in a neutral setting, whether it is a good fit for all of us. We understand that it is a challenge to find four people who are physically and intellectually drawn to each other so please keep in mind that we are not offended by being “friend-zoned” and we trust that you won’t be either. If we hit it off socially but not sexually, we would still love to continue that social connection—we’re always up for a movie, dancing, dinner or pretty much any outdoor activity.

Lastly, we have taken a great deal of care crafting this profile to ensure that we are not wasting your time should our desires not match. If you like what you’ve read, please begin your reply with the word “GREETINGS” that way we know you have taken the time to get to know us a little before suggesting we get together. We appreciate your patience and perseverance in reading our profile and look forward to hearing from you!

(We borrowed this from another couples profile, so feel free to do the same)

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What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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