Hey Ladies, My name is Jon and I'm still relatively new to the site. I am mainly looking for a good LTR FWB where we have at least a few things in common. Until I find what I'm looking for I'm still open to short term hook ups but its not what I'm here for. I'm easy to talk to; a good listener. 6'2. Tall dark and ruggedly handsome. I'm an intelligent entrepreneur, web developer, a writer, funny, somewhat powerful in my particular circle, and very Aquarius. I'm especially looking for intimacy and to feel some closeness. I am open-minded, hard working, laid back, honest and intelligent and very understanding. I'm not going to lie to you or manipulate you for any rea. I don't believe in that. I am an idealist at heart with a strong code of honor so I wont consider anything that inflicts harm on someone. But when it comes to sex there's not much I wont do to please my partner. I love pampering and giving massages. I love touching and being touched. I love those intimate moments even before foreplay. I giving and receiving oral. The better you are the more I'm going to want to give it to you the way you like it. [U]I DO READ PROFILES[/U]. I like learning more about you and I expect to meet in order to see if we have chemistry and to make sure you're not a psycho. I don't mind sharing as much info about myself as desired so feel free to ask me questions and I will answer honestly. I'm tired of the battle and the drama that comes along with 'competitive' relationships. I believe that if you're honest you can find someone who wants the same thing you do and isn't going to fight you for it. I believe in cooperation, mutual respect, and affection. I am still technically married but its not an issue. I've had to evolve several times with my home situation. I can go into further detail but the reality is that we are basically just roommates. We do not have a romantic relationship and as friends we don't keep our romantic relationships secret. Most women that I attract aren't into married men but my situation is very different so hopefully you can understand.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone with good communication who wants to have fun and share sexual experiences but also someone who can provide some intelligent conversation and someone who likes to fulfill fantasies. Passion is a plus. No games please. Just be real. If I can't see your face I don't want to think you're hiding something.

I like new experiences so if you're a bit older but you still look good or if you're younger but still mature, I'm open to a lot of situations and I don't discriminate too much. If you're interested you shouldn't be afraid to reach out. I'm a nice guy so I'm not going to leave anyone feeling bad. BBWs welcome as long as you have a cute face and long hair.

No men. No couples with men unless the man wont be physically involved. I'm not bi-sexual so sorry but I'm not interested in guys at all. If you're cheating and need a discreet relationship it has to be for a really good reason for me to consider it. If your husband can't give you what you need but you both want to stay together and he knows what you do then that's fine. I'm not trying to hurt anymore or have any drama.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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