I am in a relationship with a man that encourages me to indulge my naughty side. He takes care of my emotional needs, but could use some help with my sexual needs. It's not that I'm needy. I am very giving in bed, and follow directions well. It's that his job takes him away a few days a week. I am looking for a man willing to fill that void. I am looking for someone respectful, clean, and safe. I am very discreet and expect the same from anyone I'm with. I would prefer someone intelligent with a good sense of humor. Looks are not all that important to me. I am a pretty redhead with blue eyes. I'm 40 and curvy. I consider myself a bbw, but others don't think I'm that big. I guess it depends on what you are into. I am kinky, very open to adventure, and I love porn. I would love to find someone who is dominant and who is open to threesomes.