I access this account from my phone and it won't allow me to change location. I do not reside in the city but actually live about 30 miles south of Joliet. I am a professional chef and single mother looking to have some fun when my is away from home. I am just starting to embrace my own sexuality and wanting to find people who way help me in my journey to finding my true sexual self. I don't want to play head games or deal with other peoples drama. I simply want to have some fun and meet new people. I am an exhabitionist at times and very much a dom but not totally apposed to playing the sub occasionally. If you like to have fun and be uninhibited then I just maybe what you are looking for. Update: ok so I've been a mild dom for sometime. I'd like to enjoy the sub side of things. I have some very dark and interesting curiousities I'd like to explore. Ask me about them but if you aren't interested in mild S/M, light bondage, or the darker side of sexuality don't waste your time or mine. I don't want to play traditional games. I ultimately hope to find that per I can be with in and out of the bedroom and accepts me for who, what, and how I am and maybe cares for me more because of it. Untill that per comes into my life though I want to have fun discovering what really turns me on. Hopefully this gives you a better idea of if I am a match for you.

My Ideal Person Someone that can be sensual and articulate more than four letter words and uhggg would be nice. Someone that isn't going to judge my darker side but instead will help me explore it in steps. Someone who can be just as tender as he can be rough. Someone that will treat me like a lady and know I am in public but in the bedroom knows I am ever changing and have needs for tender intamacy as well as having dark and wild side that needs to be enjoyed, expressed, and embraced. Maybe rose petals and candle light one night and slow intamate and gentle caresses that end in an orgasmic expolssion for both of us yet another night tieing me up and trying things that go far beyond standard thought.