I've embraced my dominant side now. Have a woman I fondly call my little girl. We meet a lot, but like me she keeps an open relationship. Soooo,seeking other little girls to have fun. ALSO, I've received some negative feedback about my profile. Yes it's long, but ONLY because I want you or you or your partner to feel comfortable with me. I have an open book policy in life, and I'm not hiding, I've embraced this lifestyle. That is why I show my face in public here. NOT some stupid cock pic only policy. I meet after speaking with women I have been with before, a dick is a dick ladies and gents..it's how you use it that matters. I've gotten a lot of unsolicited comments on mine, so I'm confident it will be fine with mine for you or you and your partner's pleasure. Well about myself, I'm currently 34, 6'2" 280 and hold a master's degree in accounting from the University of South Dakota. From there I got a job in Minneapolis with my then wife i met in college. After the honeymoon I must say though she was a completely different per and had a lot of frigidity. Do not me wrong, I worked hard on the marriage. My sincerity to make it work was true. As her chosen career reached a frustrating conclusion and myself realizing that working as an auditor for the government I did not enjoy, our relationship reached a climatic conclusion. We seperated and divorced knowing finally then that college and the real world foster different relationships. During my separation my frustration had reached a conclusion of what I wanted sexually by meeting a bisexual woman in the swinging lifestyle. We were solid and swinged with other couples, had thresomes with single women, and even went on to host house parties and hotel party takeovers. We moved together as girlfriend and boyfriend in an open relationship, and with our sexual foundations together, moved to the Los Angelas area. There we continued our "lifestyle" together having lots of wild nights. We then reached an impasse and breakdown in communication and seperated ways. During all my experiences I learned how to be a giver in a sexual relationship. I guess you could say i fine tuned myself in pleasing a woman. But in all my learning experiences, sex can be meaningless if you do not reach a woman's mind. Although pleasurable, I've learned that if you concentrate yourself on a woman's needs sexually mentally, ultimately you accomplish her's and your own sexual goals. Selfless in my goals, i only find excitement when a women is excited as well. Nothing i love more than to feel her squirm or hear her cry out in pleasure. Then and only then can a woman's physical needs are easily accomplished. I'm truly a natural giver in sex and in life. I always want to make you OR ypu both more happy. Therefore, if you've read this far, I to please. I myself was born and raised in South Dakota where I learned good values in life, in dates I like to woo women by dancing and stimulating conversatioms, and not just slow dancing. Hell at an early age in junior high I took full advantage of other guys unwillingness to dance with women and still take advantage to this day. I am a little shy at first and have social anxiety but (although you won't tell when we meet as im boisterous, open, and honest), but then again who isn't shy at first meeting. As i get to know you I'm an open book to all types of conversations and nothing is off limits. I get tested clear for all diseases, so there is no concern now, nor in the future, as i want my partneds to feel safe with me. I really hate those guys that ruin a couple on single men cause they're assholes. Really dislike the rude pushy single males with no tact, and if you have met a lot lf them...they are really just tring to fet his rocks off selfishly. Age is not really a factor to me either. As I love maturity in people I meet, but realize that this all for fun and laughs to be had together. Therfore I seek a FWB or ongoing relationship. Could I ever settle for one woman, quite possiby, but for now im going to have fun!

My Ideal Person I don't judge a book by it's cover, i think that's to vain. But someone that is care free and generally looking for fun in life. Sexually carefree is even sexier, I've been in the "lifestyle" since I was 25 and must say I've been with size zeroes that have not even lit a candle to the fun, sexy, friendships I've had with larger women because of the woman's mentality. Someone that can keep up with me and go for hours of playtime. I've been known to lay out women when I lived IN LA due to orgasms.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Tool, A Perfect Circle, Rob Zombie, Neil Young, Tom Petty,
The Greatful Dead, Eminem, Pink Floyd, N

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've experienced a lot of them, but wouldn't mind
revisiting them.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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