Christmas update! I am an educated, in shape, intelligent, classy, polite, clean, good looking and considerate gentleman. Considered handsome, successful, funny, love friends and family, and enjoy life and all it's twists and turns. I am DDF, extraordinarily discreet, and physically, I am 50 and am in the best shape of my life, 6ft 1in, athletic, lean, 185lbs, hung, cut, shaved/trimmed in all the right areas, and very open minded. I always play safe, am versatile so I have and do play regularly with straight or bi couples and will consider other offers from people that have their lives in order and play safe and sane. I always use condoms and I am as hard as a rock playing with one on as I am not wearing one. I have had couples express surprise at this when they had disappointing experiences with others before me. When I play, I always get asked back so I guess that says something.

My Ideal Person So, couples are a priority just because three is a good number, I have experience with it, and it seems to be the most natural situation for erotic experimentation. I would play with a woman that is looking for a great guy and enjoys bi play so she can enjoy the touch of more than one guy at a time and looking for a woman for fwb fun mostly BUT would consider something more if we became famous friends. Ideally, someone I can be with in and out of the bedroom and smiles would grace both of our faces. I do not get intimidated by women that enjoy more than one guy or group fun and they like having a strong mature guy around to ensure her safety and sexual enjoyment. All people are on a case to case basis and if someone is guided by good judgement and plays safe then I can consider them based on my judgement and how they approach me and their attitude.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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