Hello New Friends, I am a 42 year old federal employee that is honest and decent on the inside. I am a handsome man of color and I am NOT looking to meet anyone in per. I am looking for nice friends to talk with and maybe share a web cam with if we "click!" I just enjoy meeting all people whether different races or cultures. I believe that if people took time out of their busy lives to get to know one per they would never speak to each day or each week, their would be no hatred left in this world. I try to accomplish that daily! I am also a smart ass too, and I love to make a lady laugh and smile. I am not here to preach, only to make friends and have some fun. I meet women who repeatedly ask me to give them a chance to prove that they are different only to find the same old story. It is very frustrating to have people ask you to give them a chance when they usually do not even possess one ounce of common decency. I do not treat people any kind of way that I do not wish to be treated. I treat them as I wish to be treated. I hate to waste one minute of my time with someone that cannot appreciate a man that will respect and honor a woman. I will not waste your time, so please, don't waste mine.

My Ideal Person I AM LOOKING FOR SOMETHING MANY WOMEN DO NOT HAVE..... INNER BEAUTY. THE ONE'S FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO HAVE OUTER BEAUTY THINK THE WORLD OWES THEM A DEBT OF GRATITUDE. THE REST THINK THAT THE WORLD IS ONLY BLACK AND WHITE. I SEE MANY WOMEN EVERYDAY WHO HAVE MEN THAT DO BAD THINGS TO THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID TO TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT. JUST REMEMBER, EVEN WHITE SKIN CAN HAVE A BLACK HEART. LADIES, YOU PASS UP GOOD MEN THAT WANT TO KNOW YOU EVERY DAY, BUT YOU DO NOT SEE THEM BECAUSE YOU ONLY SEE SKIN COLOR. THERE IS A GOOD MAN THERE WITH THAT YELLOW SKIN, OR BROWN SKIN, OR TAN SKIN, BUT YOU HAVE TO BE OPEN TO SUCH A CHANGE. YOU WOULD BE SURPRISED LADIES HOW MANY MEN OUT THERE WOULD LIKE TO BE YOUR KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOR OR YOU BEST FRIEND, OR YOUR LOVER AND LIFETIME PARTNER. YOU NEED TO SEE THE WHOLE WORLD AND NOT JUST THE ONE SOCIETY MAKES YOU THINK IS THE WORLD YOU SHOULD HAVE. IT IS NOT USUALLY THE ONE YOU WILL BE HAPPY WITH ANYWAY. THERE ARE GOOD MEN IN EVERY SHADE, AND THERE ARE BAD MEN IN EVERY SHADE. TAKE THE BLINDERS OFF LADIES AND SEE BEYOND THE SHADES AND SEE A MAN TRYING TO OFFER YOU TRUE HAPPINESS AND LOVE. IF IT COMES FROM THE HEART AND ALL OF OUR HEARTS ARE RED, THEN ISN'T THAT WHAT YOU TRULY SEEK? OK, MAYBE THAT AND A SECURE INCOME AND A NICE HOME AND MAYBE BENEFITS TO GO WITH THAT, BUT THERE ARE MEN OF DIFFERENT HUES AND SHADES THAT CAN PROVIDE ALL OF THAT, AND I JUST HAPPEN TO BE ONE.
I GUESS WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR MOST IS A SPECIAL SOMEONE THAT UNDERSTANDS WHAT IT IS TO MISS SOMEONE YOU LOVE WHEN THEY ARE AT WORK, TO MISS THEIR TOUCH, THEIR SCENT, THEIR VOICE, AND SOMEONE THAT FEELS THE SAME EXCITEMENT ABOUT YOU 5 YEARS OR 10 YEARS AFTER YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER. A PARTNER THAT GETS EXCITED ABOUT GOING OUT TO A MOVIE, OR DINNER, OR ON VACATION, OR EVEN JUST SITTING AT HOME WATCHING A GAME OR CSI OR SURVIVOR OR THE NEW ADVENTURES OF OLD CHRISTINE. I MOST ENJOY LOOKING AT MY LADY AND ADMIRING HER. I HOPE TO ONE DAY FIND A WOMAN THAT WILL INVEST AS MUCH PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY AS I ALWAYS DO. THAT IS MY QUEST!