I live in the West Suburbs of Chicago and am in a comfortable situation, but find something missing. Want to have a serious friend in my life. That said, fine with casual, fwb, "sometimes--when I can get away" buddies, too.

My Ideal Person Mature, fun, interested in but not focused on an intimate relationship. It can just be fun, too! Be able to hold a conversation (and your liquor if we meet for a drink...). Average to slim--at least hwp, hairy is great, but reasonably flexible and willing to look beyond external. Prefer someone who is versatile and likes to make out.