Quiet married guy looking for some discreet extra-curricular adventures. I can be shy and reserved until I get to know people better but my friends enjoy my irreverent sense of humour and my good cooking! I don't enjoy bars and nightclubs. If I go out it's to restaurants and what I call proper pubs but these days I prefer to stay in with a good book or some music and a glass of wine or malt whisky. I enjoy travelling and am learning to enjoy gardening but probably don't do as much of the latter as I ought to!

My Ideal Person Nice smile, good sense of humour, good communicator, great legs and likes to wear sheer stockings and hold ups. Anything else is a bonus!

Seriously though, I don't have a "type"; I find different ladies sexy for different reasons. The list above is what has attracted me to different people but is by no means exhaustive.

Discretion is essential as is a willingness to explore each others fantasies and desires and, hopefully, push some boundaries. There are things I would like to try and am looking for someone patient to help me with this but I'm also looking for someone to enjoy slow, sensual, intense sex with lots of foreplay with.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Train

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I've fantasised about loads of celebs. My favourite
is probably Kylie. She is just sexy; can't explain
why. I love her figure, especially her legs, and her smile.
I also have a thing for television journalists like Katie
Derham and Susanna Reid; I think it's the way they dress,
quite smart and you wonder if there is some naughty lingerie
hiding under the suit or dress.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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