Before I receive any email or instant messenger requests, please read my profile in its entirety, so not to waste my time or yours. First and foremost, I am not into the cyber or phone or camming thing and all that. I am interested in men (certain men), but I'm not looking to rush into something; I'm just keeping an open mind with things initially. Secondly, I'd like to think I'm pretty attractive and I stay in shape and I do have some intelligence which means that I am not looking to meet just anybody who asks me on a "whim" If you would like to get to know me or vice versa then I'd like someone with some substance in addition to the physical appearance. I'm pretty confident in myself and I don't want to just settle, but I do have circumstances that led my curiousity to adult friend finder. Everyone asks why did I join aff: well, I do have herpes which i am upfront and honest with....not the most endearing quality i like to share, but I would expect the same honesty from someone. AFF was kinda an outlet for my situation. Dating can be a little challenging under circumstances, especially with intimacy, and so that was initially why I looked into it. I've been a member off and on for a while now and I have met in per with a few individuals to date here and there, but don't make the mistake in thinking that I am some desperado looking to jump the first guy just because I come with a little baggage. We all have our qwerks. I am very open and sexual, but particular and cautious as well. Lastly, I am looking for someone who is honest, intelligent, ambitious, perable, funny, handsome, and who I can have some chemistry with. Physically I can go for the tall, dark, and handsome...but I've also dated outside of the typical also if you have the type of perality that interests me. Also, I will put this disclaimer here because it is a frequent question I've received and I'll nip it in the bud. Admittedly, I'm kinda a size queen because I do prefer a big penis for any potential partner of mine. It's not a deal breaker, but it is preference just like you guys have preferences too. Some info about me: I went off to college towards Athens for a little while and I did exotic dance while I first started school. I then moved back to my area now and graduated from school in Atlanta while waitressing and finishing up a degree. I waitressed after finishing school for a good while until I started doing work for the state doing audits basically. Now I teach. I date from time to time but nothing serious currently. I don't have s yet. I used to post pictures on here but I took them down cause I wasn't liking idea of being recognized, so I will share upon getting to know you. If you have read my profile and feel like you are the man of my dreams then I might give you benefit of the doubt in talking, but I wouldnt come to the table with preconceived intentions. Thanks.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

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