We are a couple that has played before and we are considering getting back into the lifestyle. We both like meeting interesting and exciting people. She likes to be a little naughty and he enjoys how hot she gets. We have been married for nine years. We have two s and I must say, along with making a living, we are real busy. The safety, development and happiness of our family is our first concern. However, since we have had ren, our lives have changed. We did play with an occasional male friend before and enjoyed going out with friends. But that kind of activity became rare over the past few years. It was very exciting for both of us when it happened. I think we are just now becoming ready to play again. We likely will bide our time and choose partner(s) carefully.

My Ideal Person The ideal person(s) we are looking for would be honest and sensitive to our situation. Because of family and jobs we expect discretion. Having a great sense of humor and not being overly serious about themselves helps a lot. Those who seek or create drama can look elsewhere. A positive outlook never hurts either Educated does not equate to egotistical and there are lots of ways a person can be educated by life. Some interests in other things such as music and arts helps. Confidence is sexy.

Physical attraction depends first on the above description. Erotic sensuality begins between the ears. That said, we prefer age to stay in our approximate age group. Height-weight proportional types that are clean and groomed are more attractive-we are non-smokers and have our sense of smell. A person can have long hair, but too hairy can be scary. She likes endowed (m). He likes petite (f). We like couples too!

The bisexual thing for us is like this. She is bi, he is really open-minded. Bi-curious is a tad off but there is not a category called "open-minded." It is more like, he goes with the flow.

More to be added as we think about this...

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