I am married, but not dead.. I am honest and to the point.. but also care about what others feel and think. I would like to meet someone who is seeking more than a one night stand.I would like an ongoing friendship. I do need the emotional connection as well as the physical.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a discreet ongoing relationship/affair.. Love to kiss... Kissing is highly underrated..and can be so erotic. would like to meet someone in the same situation I am.. that is looking for a discreet affair.. preferably long term.
Respect goes a long way.. A man that is looking for a good friend.. with benefits if the fireworks are there. I am not into cybersex, or talking dirty only.. so please do not ask me "what are you wearing".
A man not looking to notch the bed post. As sense of humor is a must. Kind and sincere.. Honest. I am a person with feelings.. and expect to be treated as such.

A friend who will treat me with respect. I do not want to meet someone who wants to spend the time to getting to know each other, develop the trust. I am not into meeting just to sit in a vehicle and be groped, I am better than that I hope the man I meet will be too. Someone who is not afraid to call and say hi thinking of you.. and does not mind if I call to say the same thing. Contact is important as well as discretion and honesty.