The pleasures of love are pains that become desirable, where sweetness and torment blend, and so love is voluntary insanity, infernal paradise, and celestial hell -- in short, harmony of opposite yearnings, sorrowful laughter, soft diamond. -Umberto Eco, The Island of the Day Before ______ I am fun, easy going and very easy to talk to. I'm very open about my life and what's running through my head... The most important thing I can tell you about me is that I love to talk and find that it is so much more enjoyable talking with someone who is as open as I am! I’m a curvy, witty, and articulate woman that is all about sensuality and passion. I enjoy meeting new people and hope that along the way I will make great friends and possibly even find someone for a long term relationship. For now, friends with benefits fits the bill. I enjoy everything from fine dining to clubbing; coffee shops to bars; beaches to billiards; movies to musicals. My more intimate desires lay in hair pulling, spanking and stretching my boundaries. What really turns me on is a man that knows safe boundaries so that submitting completely is a pleasurable and stress free release for me. I enjoy being pampered by massage and complete abandon through sensuality. I am completely separated (divorce pending), have no , am healthy and D/D free with no hang-ups or addictions. I am an honest woman who craves the attention of an endearing and charming man. I'm very visually stimulated, so my first desire is to see your face pic. Further desires will be determined by the quality of our conversation. I USED to be vanilla...now I'm looking for a little more "flavor" in my life. I have had the benefit of abandoning myself completely to a vigorous, sensual and passionate friend and lover. I have been spoiled for anyone of lesser quality. I have enjoyed a healthy and active sex life and am looking for someone new who can rock my world and rattle my cage.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a man that I can be friends with first; then if the chemistry is there, our friendship can build into more, even if rather quickly. My best friendships were formed in an evening.

I am seeking a white (or other light skinned variety) man between 30-46 yrs old, 5’7” or taller. I am attracted to men who would use more than one of the following words to describe themselves: open, genuine, humorous, intuitive, assertiveness not aggressiveness, healthy lifestyle, realistic, disciplined, sincere, fun, playful, intelligent, sexy, adventurous, affectionate, romantic, naughty, attentive, sensual.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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