Couple, mid 40s, intelligent and attractive, outgoing, some experience in swinging, seeking single women and couples for sharing of delightful times!

My Ideal Person It's easy to say that we are looking for people who are'similar'... and there are so many beautiful people on this site!

Yet how do you know, how do you determine who will be the right single partner/couple when - judged by a few photos and perhaps some correspondence a- ny of 10, 15 could be potentially suitable.. at any given time.

And then... how to find the time...?

Is this where a part of the 'swinging' adventure begins.. meeting several people for 'drinks'.... the anticipation of what they will look like, sound like, whether you would get on like a house on fire or sense an immediate barrier/dislike? Hell, what then?

But are the tingling initial exploratory sensations that go with looking for the right partners not one of the best parts of it all..?

If you meet the suitable ones, do you experience further fantasies of what they would look like naked and under soft lights, a few wines later, perhaps some ecstasy to boost it all.. who knows..?

And, of course, the worries... what if I/we are not compatible when the clothes come off, what if there is stage fright or non-performance.. does there exist a sure-fire way of getting all these factors in perfect unison?

Where do YOU find yourself on this intriguing journey?

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

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