Updated about me: I am divorced and have several partners, one of whom lives with me (she sometimes watches and sometimes participates based on the activities and the people involved). All of my partners are aware of any and all activities I engage in with other people, regardless of whether those are sexual experiences (swinger parties, hotel takeovers, single meetups, etc.) or if they are BDSM related (dungeon parties, dom/sub scenes, impact, etc.). So, if that level of openness doesn't work for you, please move on. My actual orientation isn't really straight, but the options available don't really reflect me. I think the best description of me is .... somewhere between heteroflexible and bi. While I lean primarily hetero, I am open to and also desire some activities with men - especially as it pertains to bdsm. Based on the activity and messages I have received since I also added men to the description, I want to make something clear. My interest in men will also include BDSM related activities. Our play must have those aspects. I am just not really interested in sex only sessions with men. I practice SSC (safe, sane and consensual) in all my play. We'll negotiate whatever we are going to get up to. And you will always be at choice whether we play or not (the lone grey area being if you are interested in a CNC or a negotiated power exchange scene) I am looking for a bunch of different experiences - A couple where we can engage in MMF play - a submissive couple where he is the omega sub(maybe even cuck) and she is a slutty submissive plaything - an omega sub who would really truly be the lowest in my house hierarchy. Extra points if said sub is also a sissy/CD. - folks who want to explore their BDSM fantasies and inclinations - I love dominance that is sexual as well as dominance where sex is not part of the equation. I also like most activities sexual and/or kinky. Let's have a threesome where he and I spend time switching back and forth as to which one is giving her pleasure. Let's meet at a hotel for a nice long screwing session. Let's go out to dinner - and you hand me the remote control to the vibrator currently inside you. C'mon over and get that spanking you have been craving. I like to think of myself as creative and attentive.

My Ideal Person NSA play partners. One time meetups are cool. a semi regular or regular partner is also ok. I have several lovers who live varying distances from me, so you must be ok with not only that I have other lovers, but that someone else is going to be my primary. I don't hide anything from my lovers about my activities.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
If it is sexual, I probably like it. Very few no's. I
am primarily looking for couples to play kinky games with.
And am open to all.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, Anywhere

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