She has all the play buddies she wants right now, and is encouraging him to find his. So for right now she isn't actively seeking play. That's not to say she would never join another couple ora single to make a 3 some, she's just not actively looking today. He is looking for women, not too hung up on age or body type. just wanting someone who is comfortable with themselves and their sexuality. Couples: He is bi, but m on m play is not required. For that matter neither is m on f. Same criteria as for women above. Men need to understand, she is very unlikely to join in. Ever. If she does there will be no m on m play same room. I (man) am a pretty average 40 year old. I had a muscular, athletic build years ago, but life, s, and work have helped change that. Not really fat, just not a Ken doll. Sorry. I am comfortable with myself and my sexuality. I'm not bragging, but I have a near genius level intelligence. They say the brain is the biggest sex organ on the body you know.

My Ideal Person For him, open minded freedom is a must. The fewer inhibitions the better. Men, women, couples doesn't matter.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
For him: I fantasize about threesomes and gropus the most. My most favorite involves another man and two other women. While the details are pretty lengthy, suffice to say everyone enjoys everyone else's company, and I enjoy competeing with my wife for "best oral sex provider".

For her: I don't really fantasize, but I have been known to occassionally get worked up listening to my husband's fantasies about threesomes.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The living room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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