Most of my friends would say I have a shy personality. When it comes to physical health, i just started going to the gym and go about 3 times a week. I dislike bars and prefer not to party. Iâm a switch, Iâm comfortable being aggressive and submissive in bed. I generally prefer my partners to take control. I love sex, and am not looking for anything serious right now, no commitments to serious relationships at the moment. Iâm pretty vanilla, and like traditional sex. My favorite positions are cowgirl and missionary. I prefer one on one sex. Iâm not into bondage, bdsm, blindfolds, etc.