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myessenceissweet 62/F
San Jose, California
I'm just a squirrel trying to get her nut. Quality Nuts Only!
[I][COLOR indigo][I]PLEASE BE ADVISED GIVEN OUR CURRENT SITUATION, I AM NOT MEETING ONCE THINGS ARE DEEMED SAFE AGAIN, I WILL RECONSIDER I AM VIEWING PROFILES, AS I AM STILL INTERESTED IN THE MALE ANATOMY I HAVE RECEIVED MESSAGES THAT I HAVE VIEWED PROFILES OFTEN THIS SEEMS TO BE SYSTEM GENERATED OR DUE TO THE SENSITIVITY OF THE CURSOR AS I SCROLL OVER WHEN I VIEW OTHER PROFILES. I AM ONLY INTERESTED IN MATURE BLACK MALES I AM HISPANIC MIXED I AM MATURE I AM SENSUALLY THICK I AM A SIZE 14 I AM 210 - 215 LBS I AM A 38C ACCORDING TO VICTORIA SECRET I AM SEXUALLY PROPORTIONATE I AM DELIBERATELY EDUCATED I AM INTRIGUINGLY WITTY AND I AM UNEXPECTEDLY FUN IF ANYONE HAS ISSUE WITH THIS...PLEASE PASS ME BY May 14, 2015 My Love I sit here with my loins pulsating, searching for your prowess masculinity to pounce upon my wet gates of pleasure, anticipating the warmth of your desire to flood my walls In wave after wave of orgasmic rhythms, tasting the sweetness of the cream ejaculation pouring from your temple, succumbing to our lustful wanting for one another...Beautifully June 22, 2014 Lighten the darkness in the clouds of my inner thoughts, fore profound agony has proclaimed its place there. Reaching for one to behold the words to my plight. To bestow the petals which have fallen into torrent muse of awareness. Enlighten me in the vows of endless tomorrows and shed impossible dreams from its corner of doubt. Beckon me forward to this place forgiving and announce my arrival. Lecture me on love, joy and happyness. Recite unto me trust, loyalty and serenity. I trust that my heart will be opened to the spirit of King. September 2011 Before nigh captures the breath of my breast. I wish to see the eyes of yours, hear the voice of melodies, feel the gentle brush as it penetrates my soul. My beloved where is it you wander that you are far from my heart? I await your coming as the gift of life breathed into me. Tasting the celebration of harmony we will share in our journey. Yes, as the hope in myself sustains me, I will await your presence in my life. I will drink of the water of love, hope, joy and peace until your arrival makes us complete... April 2011 Your taste evades my lips. Behold the hours lay before us. The many adventures we can partake in are only subject to our imagination. Cum take token in pleasure of the cream filled adventures that await us... Ecstasy 1986 Ecstasy of the finest An experience of science Did we commence In time, a moment To fulfill in motion A desire for creation To expel in feeling To find a healing In time, a moment We became as one Entwined, we did succumb A memory instilled in me In time will always be A moment of Ecstasy Succulent Seductress 8/4/13 Succulent the way of a Woman Am I Seductress the way of a Woman Am I Before you I lay my heart Before you I lay my treasures Unto you I endeavor to please Unto you I endeavor to intrigue Before the light of eternity Before the dark of midnight I cum to you naked I cum to you insatiable Woman am I... A Sensual Nature 7/26/2013 Before the crown of sunlight does reach this place of wanting; Wanting to feel the bronze of your warmth in places deep; Deep insatiable pulses of lingering lust; Lust for pleasurable moments of a sensual nature before the crown of sunlight... Sensual Secrets 5/19/2013 Breath the fuel of untold moments Unmarked by the hours Lying in sheets of pleasure Our tolls of sensuous entanglement Bestow our tales of submission Unto one another, pleasurably Intoxicate Me 3/30/2013 Intoxicate me with moments Inlaid your profound lust of wanting Before my thighs with kindled desire Preparing my gates to surrender Unto you...inevitably Promiscuous Promises 12/14/2012 Shall we share the lusts of our nature with one another? Shall we indulge in playful arts of scent, touch, kiss, lick and taste? Shall we sip of the nectar of our flavors for an evening? Shall we bond in the embraces of fever that penetrate our senses? Shall we explode in measure after measure of delight and scream our names in orgasmic pulses? Shall we indulge in the promiscuous promises of an evening shared in blissful satisfaction? Yes, we must... I am the Author of these Poems / Prose ~ My Essence is Sweet ~ [/COLOR][/I] [B][COLOR indigo][I]Please take your time to read through my profile before sending a message. [/B] Let's keep an open mind, yet we must be realistic about what We are seeking and the distance between us. First and foremost...I believe I have come to that juncture in My life that I feel the ideal situation, for Me, would be to find that Someone Special. My Heart continues to tell Me I want more than an encounter. I miss the companionship of knowing someone will be there for Me at the end of the day. Although I have been searching, I have yet to find that Special Someone. Currently, I find I am not actively searching for playmates, however, my purpose here is more of what I call Maintenance. I am quite beyond my Sexploration phase and have come to know what works best for Me, in and out of the bedroom. If this is an acceptable arrangement for you, let's get to know one another. I must advise you, My playmates are also My friends. I tend to like to get to know those I play with. I believe it enhances the connection and the outcum is Beautiful Sex. If this is an issue for you, then by all means...pass me by. I must say, I've enjoyed exploring My sexuality and indulging in many wonderful experiences. I thank each and every one of My playmates, you know whom you are, for the many pleasures we've experienced together. I am a true romantic at heart, quiet moments, a glass of wine, candles, soft music, exploring using the five senses, etc...yet, I can be a bit freaky ~ wink. Simply, I Luv to FUCK! I do enjoy long deep passionate kisses, exploring and touching every crevice, all night long sessions, round after round, spooning as the sun rises kind of Luv. My pleasure is your pleasure. I am known to do some amazing things with My mouth and My hands. My mouth and tongue will reach some sensual spots that you may not have experienced before. My soft hands will massage you effortlessly and leave you ever so relaxed that you will fall off to sleep before you are aware. I have a fondness for educated, mature and well endowed playmates for ongoing adult fun. I am here to meet real people in real time. I ask that you be real, that you be mature, that you be clean and that you be on time...NO FLAKES! If you are on the fence or indecisive...keep searching...I am not for you! If you are a man interested in men, TS/TV/TG/CD...keep searching...I am not for you! If you are a woman...keep searching...I am not for you! If you do not fit the "My Ideal Person" description...keep searching...I am not for you! CUM CORRECT GENTLEMEN OR DO NOT CUM AT ALL!!! BRING YOUR "A" GAME BECAUSE I AM AN "A" GAME PLAYER!!! [B]About me:[/B] I am a mature, single, Hispanic/Mixed, 5'5", approx 215 pds Thick, 38C, sexually proportionate with long dark hair. Some say a complete package ~ breasts, ass, thighs, legs, soft olive skin with a nice phat juicy shaven pussy. I am very secure in My sexuality and very comfortable in My own skin. I am often complimented on My smile, charm and friendly demeanor. I do have a smart wit and a good sense of humor. I have been told countless times I look much younger than My years. I can say, I can engage you in good conversation on most topics and subject matter. I am a Gracious Host and I would do My Best to make our experience one to Remember. (Hosting is limited these days) I am not for everyone and everyone is not for Me. I am very okay with that. I hope you are as well...[/SIZE][/I][/COLOR]

My Ideal Person Currently my preference is that of the company of educated Black, Afro-American and/or Black/Mixed (emphasis on Black) Alpha Males.

Alpha Males (AM) generally stand out and are reasonably good looking, confident, intelligent and muscular (broad shoulders, nice pecs, trim waist, firm ass, thick thighs and are well endowed).

AM's have a charismatic personality. Their body language exudes supreme confidence and sexuality in a positive manner. Their aura, it seems, acts as a matter where they go.

What is the AM definition? ...the term AM is used to describe an individual in a group or a society who dominates the group, and has natural ability to take initiatives and stand out as a leader in times of crisis and difficulties. Generally, one of the most talked about and hyped AM characteristics is that they are a woman charmer and have the potential to attract them instantly.

AM Traits Decoded!
The AM is endowed with leadership qualities and is smart, elegant, successful, confident and keeps things under his control without dominating others.

Courteous Behavior!
The hallmark of an AM is his behavior. The AM represents himself as a confident player and makes sure that his position and authority is never questioned. He stands out differently from the group and his dominant body language conveys that he is under control of the situation. He talks less but talks smart. The AM is not the one who chases a woman, but he is the one who is chased by women.

Refined Body Language!
Majority of the alpha men are muscular, strongly built and their physical appearance makes them easily noticeable in a will find alpha men, fit and healthy, and with an imposing personality. An AM has an enigmatic charm on the face and exhibits confidence and courage.

The common misunderstanding of an AM is that he is related to the Cave Man. That he is aggressive and overbearing. It is not about domination, yet Respect!

I am an ALPHA FEMALE and I desire, no I require, an ALPHA MALE

An Alpha Female (AF) is a quintessential woman. She's me. There is none like her, just like her counterpart the Alpha Male. Though they are many Alpha males and men who want to be like him, there are few genuine AFs. Not too many women want to be like her, because they want to be liked by other women. AFs are way beyond that. She doesn't get her identity from other women, but one she alone defines. The AF is unique in that she's not a bitch, she's not a saint, she just wins.

An Alpha-Female is:

A woman unafraid to use...her femininity to get her way with men.

A woman who is completely in control of her destiny.

Usually a loner, has a "clique" or a pack when ready, but AFs are cave dwellers and truly blossom when with their complementary half, an Alpha Male. She is dominant over all men and women, except her Alpha male (AFs eat Beta men for breakfast, by the way).

Ruthless, more so than a man, because you never see it coming.

A woman who cannot be categorized, and will always rise above the stereotype of being "Female".

You immediately know when an AF walks in the room; enters at the same status as the leaders in the room.

She is full of contradictions often keeping her male partner in a suspended state, not sure exactly what to do with her.

Have a hard time at work because of their innate leadership skills and can ruffle the wrong feathers; eventually she manages to rise to the top because of her style and intellect.

She is not a bitch; and abhors the comparison because she revels in using her sweetness to get her way, not evil.

She crushes her female competition to get the most wanted man in the room, in fact she revels in her power over men, in fact, men love her for it.

This said, allow me to continue...

About you:

Please be over 45 and not much older than Myself, a good height is 5'10" or taller, weight between 180-220 works best, Magnum men 8" plus straight cut works beautifully. I am very oral and I like a nice straight dick that I can tantalize with my talents. Thick and firm gentleman, thick and firm is what gets my juices flowing. If you do Me right I will squirt My sweet juices all over you to let you know how much you pleased Me. I prefer that you be clean shaven, sporting a high and tight/bald/fade, minimal facial and/or body hair, manscaped or shaven. Someone of intelligence, who can engage in an ongoing intellectual conversation, combined with some wit, charm and a good sense of humor.

If you are currently or were formerly serving in our Military...I would like to meet you! We speak the same language and that makes for good times. In general, I have a fondness for men in uniform who serve our Community and Country proudly. These men walk in proud, yet humbling shoes.

You must be single, "UNATTACHED" and clean. No Exceptions!

I am not into "Hit and Runs". My time is valuable to Me. I prefer a mature individual who has time to engage on a regular basis. I am selective with whom I engage. It is much more than sex. It is a moment in My life. I want to remember it fondly and take pleasure in the moment. I see no harm in wanting to connect with those who might be seeking the same.




Non smoker, social/casual drinker is fine.

I do Thank You for taking a moment to read through my profile. I wish you the best today and always...

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Rimming, Spanking, Food Play, Fisting, Massage, Squirting, Kissing

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I have met many celebrities and professional athletes,
etc... I am about meeting real people in realtime, yet if
I had to choose one it would be Denzel Washington. Why, because
he is the epitome of class, chivalry and did I mention he
is SEXY as Hell!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 62 / female
  • San Jose, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: May 1, 1961
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Government
Race: Mixed
Religion: Christian
Bra Size: 38 / 85 C
Speaks: English, Spanish
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: