Handsome Chocolate Man Looking For A New Chapter in my book life. Fun loving and at this stage in my life, I am quite open minded...actually shocked at how open minded I have come to be....

My Ideal Person I am just looking for a special lady......mature, educated, cultured, employed, ambitious, discrete, and overall, just a "ball of FUN".

If she likes to dance, have dinners or lunches with great company, perhaps some occasional travel, that would be awesome.

Married or attached will not deter me. I have been both and know how good people some times just need something else and the pursuit of it does not impact the way I look at good people.

What's most important is that there's a level of respect and consideration for the other person at all times. Great friendships can last a lifetime......even if the personal flame may have flickered out.

My preference is 40's and up....but I will consider mid-30's if the person is mature and has a good grip on their life's direction.

Cleanliness, being drug free, in-shape, etc are important to me. I want to like what I see....and I hope that this lady likes (in me) what they see.

Your photos will get my photos.....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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