I'm in a poly relationship and have a couple of steady partners, so at this point I'm mostly looking for casual play partners and loose friends with benefits- folks to hang out with maybe once a week at most. I'm happy to host, happy to meet in public first. I live with a partner, but we mostly play separately (their dance card is full enough without any help). I have service top tendencies. If you're not familiar with the term, I tend to focus on my partner's enjoyment and I tend to be more active than my partners. I was raised by a pack of wild witches, second wave radical feminists, and lesbian separatists. My mum was a Dianic Wiccan priestess. I guess you could say that I have my own form of goddess worship. I'm not particularly kinky when left to my own devices, but I often enjoy the ambient culture of the BDSM community and've been vetted through SICK. I haven't been active in the new organizations, but've had the opportunity to visit the Center's play space. I have a fair amount of friends that are more active in the scene than I am. I'm BDSM educated, but my default setting is gentle. I work in erotica- I make cartoony pornographic comics. I'll post some of them as I get the new batch finished, probably January or February 2020. I like to think that I make wholesome, sex-positive porn.

My Ideal Person I'm sex-positive, body-positive, and trans-positive (also Ace-positive, on the longshot that any Ace folk on this site see my profile). I appreciate variety in my life, and am open to a pretty wide range of ages, body types, and interests. A couple highlights of what I'm looking for:

General Snog Buddies. Especially ones that find awkward intelligence a turn-on. You set the boundaries, and I'll let you know if they go past my comfort zone.

Fuck Buddies. Like snog buddies, but with a bit more of an explicit focus.

Artist/Muse Relationships. I'm a bit of a starving artist, so I can't quite pull off the sugar daddy vibe... so my caretaker tendencies sneak through in my art and in being available for deep conversations. The only boundary there is that the more emotional support I give, the less likely I am to get explicit. Gotta be careful not to wear too many hats (a hard learned lesson, for sure).

Collaborators. Like the Artist/Muse scenario, but with professional pretensions. Are you an adult performer with enough distinctive branding/ niche focus we could turn you into a comic? Want some extra fan art? Also always looking for writers that want their stories illustrated.

Couples. My partner gets plenty of attention on their own, so I'm not looking for unicorns- but I'm willing to be one for the right couple or group! A male unicorn! I'm mostly straight, but I'm also generally not afraid of cock.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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