I am sane, educated, professionally employed, nonpushy, and openminded sexually. I have my reas for being on this site as I imagine you do. I am an adult in everything I do and respectful. I know single males are a dime a million on any site as such as this. So I guess I have to set myself apart. I am really not in the lifestyle, I do not attend lifestyle events, I do not go to the clubs, and I do not have the time to actively seek out other individuals who are. I have a healthy sexual appetite. I desire imagination and creativity, meaning I am not just looking for a fuck and sex, to me, is more than a fuck. I am not one of those weird guys who is little more than his dick who turns off most woman because he is only focused on his dick. I am clean, always smells good, and I take very frequent showers and attend to my general hygiene without being the contemporary metro sexual. I am a geek and have political opinions but can respect other individuals' opinions without becoming hostile because we share different views. I am an educated professional who has grown and understand now that the smart guy in the room is the popular guy in the room. I do not have a chip on my shoulder because of some perceived slight by Caucasian society. I do not have a need to prove myself nor do I feel threatened in any manner concerning my masculinity. I do not have all of the myriad of hangups a lot of indviduals grapple with. I am an individual of substance who can discuss how to code a website, repair a car, or weld and comfortably work a boardroom and host a meeting. Whether in couple play or with a single lady I understand that I am the guest and that the individuals who choose to entertain my participation are my focus without my having to be submissive. I am an older male who is confident in who I am, what I want, and what I will participate in with the ability to be honest and graciously decline an activity which is not right for me.

My Ideal Person My ideal person or couple is one who understand that what we do sexually is an indulgence. It is an activity one participates in as adults, but who understands that whatever pleasure is shared is in the moment and in no way is a daily or consuming activity.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Had sex on the top of a highrise...

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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