I'm looking to meet and make some new friends in the area. I am now able to start getting out in the area and enjoy a little peral time for myself again. My priorities in life are work, family and friends, home, and lovers in this order! I still have to coordinate and schedule my time with my responsibilities! I like to work hard and I like to play hard and they are separate activities from each other. If you want to see a picture just send a request along with your own and I'll respond with mine. If you want to meet in per (some only want to chat on a computer—but life beckons me) regardless of what status you want to be (friends or lovers) it will be in a public place. I love caffeine so there are plenty of social spots to choose to meet. If you just want to remain friends that will be great also. I like getting together with my friends over dinners, shopping, movies, clubs and other socializing activities and having a good time. I will respect your wishes and you will respect mine. That being said: I want to find an ongoing lover for a LTR who is nice, attractive (in attitude and looks), has a sense of humor (but not immature) that can get together at least 2-4 times a week (mainly on weekends and sometimes evenings due to work) and get laid. I really like sex and getting laid. If it develops into more then great--we will go from there. I'm not looking to get into a boyfriend relationship (monogamous friend and lover but never a monotonous relationship)at this time. I want someone to spend time with in and out of bed as well. Please do not send an email or chat wanting to meet in fif minutes. I can not and will not accommodate an impromptu meeting. Nine out of ten times I'll be with family and friends at socializing events. Spontaneity or spontaneous for me is changing the time frame or location of an already planned scheduled meeting that has been arranged. My criteria for a lover (all others can be friends if you want to be) 1. Will not be married or attached--I don't care for the drama (prefer not to say-will not work with me). 2. Will not do drugs (prefer not to say-will not work with me). 3. Will use condoms 4. Be between the age of 40-55 5. You will host--I will not host. 6. Do not think I am a submissive---that is a no! If you ask to me do something and I want to do it then I will, otherwise I will be giving the orders at least 50% of the time:) I do believe in equality by both giving and receiving lots and lots pleasure--but no pain. If you want any other questions answered just send me an email and I’ll be happy to answer. Good Luck and Best Wishes with what you are seeking on the site! WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person Since no one is perfect...a lover who will be a friend out of bed once we move on. A person who has their own likes and dislikes that can be similar and differ from my mine and still respect mine as well.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Ask me and I'll tell you!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Slave/Master

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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