A face picture is a requirement for us is we all decide to meet. We are a secure married couple, both 49 yrs old, have been in the lifestyle for over 14 years and are very comfortable in most situations. What we are looking for depends on a lot of things however we are not interested in meeting men or women that are playing without their spouse/partner knowledge. We also do not share pictures beyond what we have on here. She is 5'5, plus size (size 18), has tattoos, 42C, now shaved, very sensual, a social drinker and smoker, surgery safe, and has a contagious laugh. He is 6'2, 220lbs with a semi athletic build, social drinker, avg endowment (6.75 x 5), vasectomy safe and shaved. We are both employed, D&D free and are very down to earth people. We enjoy bowling, the outdoors, music and partying and have a general love of life! We do not meet with couples where only one wants to "watch" nor do we meet with people that are unable to host for whatever reason they may have. We feel that if you are on this site that you should be adult enough to pay for a gold membership and be adult enough to provide pictures (we all have jobs and we all have families so those reason are not good enough in our opinion to not send a face picture of yourself if you have an honest interest in chatting with us. If you are a couple we reasonably expect that you have a picture of the two of you together. There are a lot of amazing people in the lifestyle however there are a few that are more into games and lying which causes suspicion on those that don't deserve it.

My Ideal Person Our ideal person or couple is between 30-60 years old, very clean with great hygiene, have a wonderful sense of humor and can carry a conversation (meaning can speak as well as listen!), very single or happily in a mature relationship that involves zero jealousy and drama, someone that can host as well as come to our place but also enjoys going out for a night on the town (concerts, sporting events, casino, etc). We prefer couples/men/women that do have experience in the lifestyle and have respect for other people regardless of whatever situation they may find themselves in. We also practice safe sex so if you are unable or unwilling to use a condom during intercourse then we are not for you but if we find someone for a LTR that can change.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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