I wanted to update this to reflect more what we are looking for, or just why we created this profile. My boyfriend and I are exclusive to each other, but we have both had fantasies about a threesome. He would prefer another woman. He'd find it very sexy for me to play, kiss and touch another woman and then let him join in. He is not opposed to another man as long as its clear I would be the focus and there would be no play between the two of them. My preference would be another man so he and my man could work me over till I couldn't stand up on my own :D. I would definitely not mind another woman either. I think touching and kissing soft female skin could be very sexy. We have never done anything like this before and are not sure how we are going to proceed. If we find someone attractive, intriguing, or sexy we will most likely hot-list them and then discuss what we feel comfortable with at that point. Discretion would be nice and maybe a drink out to get used to each other.

My Ideal Person We would like someone calm, gentle, able to roll with what happens and who is easygoing. Sex is wet, messy and fun We want someone who gets that. Between 25 and 35 give or take a year or two and also:
Neither one of us is religious or preachy, but we are not willing to help someone cheat. If your significant other is okay with it or wants to come, great! but if they aren't aware you "need not apply". No judgment, that's just who we are.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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