I'm a 50-something experienced submissive SWF in NW Chicago burbs seeking a Dom or Domme or dominate couple interested in something less than 24/7 D/s lifestyle (careers get in the way, ya know!). 5'1", medium length dk brown hair, 38Ds, blue/green eyes, very fair skinned (shows a nice handprint). I am a BBW - not skinny but not huge either wearing a ladies L or 12/14. Several ideas for sessions to develop a sex-ersize routine for a healthier, more fit sub or various BDSM reward and punishment scenarios paralleling my weight loss success/failure could be developed.

My Ideal Person Seeking people interested in activities such as light bondage, clamps and chains, flogging, spankings, and paddling, role play (I make costumes as a side line), viewing adult videos and heavy toy usage. I have been previously trained for extended-duration oral servitude. Limits respected and mine include: no skat, no golden showers, no blood sports, no kiddie, nothing that perm. marks the skin, no breath play. Both pleasures and limits (with exception of firm limit on kiddie) may be modified based on my prospective Dom’s desires and by breaking through mental or physical limitations set previously. I am willing to experiment with most BDSM activities and will reserve judgment to add them to my list of pleasures or limits only after multiple attempts (I’ll attempt more than once). I’m over-educated with six post-secondary degrees - I will question your methods and seek to understand your desires and requirements. A weak or inexperienced dominant would not be appropriate for this situation. I’m bisexual but prefer to serve a man. It is understood that if my Dom has no issue with me serving a woman – Domme or submissive - the situation will be discussed before moving forward. However, submissive females must be part of a D/s couple where the dominant partner will coordinate with my prospective Dom.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes

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