Re-write: I don’t know if women read these or if they make a difference to most. However the type of woman who is first turned on through her mind is the kind I am searching for. I have always been the type of man that is overlooked by the women who don’t care to look beyond the exterior. Truth be told, every serious relationship I’ve had was struck up after she and I had known each other for a time. When she learned that I could make her laugh and when she trusted that I cared enough to recall the smallest details about her likes and dislikes. And when she began to see that I perceived her inner most beauty. Those things can’t happen on a site like this. They happen when you are in a persons life. Through work or other social situation, they take time. I’m not cute at first glance, but you’ll find me to be handsome when we are eye to eye. I’m not a muscular and toned specimen, but I’m strong and I can work with my hands in a way most men cannot or will not. I’m not arrogant or conceited but I’m confident in who I am, where I’ve come from and what I’ve overcome to get here. I take life in stride. I’m not easily rattled but I’m passionate in pursuit of my goals. I listen much better than I talk. I learn with a near photographic recollection of facts, figures and statistics. I pick up and master new skills as a way of unwinding. I’ve got more projects than I have time at the moment but, I’m time, I know I’ll run out of them. I look for ways to leave a legacy and change the destiny of my so they can be what I could not and live without being weighed down by the baggage I’ve endured. I’ve never claimed or believed myself to be the best at anything- I just often end up in that spot. I’ve got outlandish ideas and when they come to fruition, they help define the next chapter of my life. I know this life is very short so I take no days for granted. I’m fiercely protective of my inner circle and I’ll die to prevent any harm come to them. I enjoy a challenge and respect highly women who are successful and independent. They are an inspiration to me and not a threat. I don’t view their success by standards set by others but by the ones they have imposed on themselves. Their choice toward a career or towards motherhood are equal in their merits in my book. I want to make someone better by being at their side and they the same with me.

My Ideal Person Witty, naughty, confident and free! Actually, the person I seek may not exist. Can she be neat and tidy, while being a disaster some days? Can she be as playful as a puppy but as viscous as a lioness? Laugh at the right time and cry when I do? She can be independent and needy at the same time. Flirty and hard to get. the total package. Physical attributes are irrelevant if she is that one.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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