We have been married over a decade and have wonderful . Not looking for lovers, just fun, play and games when we have breaks from our very busy schedules. If friendship comes later, bonus. As we said, looks and age aren't a huge determining factor for us, but must be clean.friendly, and to make a night a little more fun, some drinks certainly help. We listen to all kinds of bands, radio head, counting crows, Joplin, Mumford and sons and Florence and the machines etc. we have played with a few couples and had a lot of fun, but she is more into the ladies and we would prefer women only, but open to the right couple. He is a boob man and likes them in all shapes and sizes. We both have weight to lose and have been doing great at losing it.