I feel like I'm searching for the impossible. I can't be the only sane, educated and mostly normal per "stuck" in a marriage that lacks a long list of attributes. I know the grass isn't always greener on the other side- so to speak. I've tried watering the grass on my side for years to no avail. I'm looking for an individual in the same or similar situation. An intellectual connection is paramount. Mutual attraction is important. However, a perfect physique becomes irrelevant if you're not educated and/or cannot carry on a conversation. I'm not looking for perfect. I am looking for genuine and real. I'm open-minded with age- both older and (slightly) younger. I am looking for something much deeper than a one night stand. I need a connection- someone I'm in tune with. At the same time, my intentions are realistic.