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firsttimeguy5855 41 / M
"Back in the swing of things"
Canton, Illinois, United States
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firsttimeguy5855 41/M
Canton, Illinois
Back in the swing of things
Hey there, I'm 37 years old, college graduate having the time of my life. I'm intelligent, extremely down to earth, and easy-going enough to enjoy myself in virtually any setting. I love the thrill of meeting new people and hearing about their unique stories. As others will no doubt confirm, I've got a tremendous amount of stamina and a very high sex drive, and can use my weapon of mass destruction quite well. I have been told that I'm a passionate lover who is artful and years ahead of his time. However, I keep my sexuality in proportion with the rest of my life because it's never good to get carried away with anything. I'm erudite, well traveled, cultured, and I possess a deep appreciation for intellectual discourse as well as great sex because I firmly believe that in many cases, intelligence and "great" sex go hand in hand. After all, the brain is our largest sex organ. I am definitely not one for endless email exchanges as I'd rather talk to you on the phone or better yet, meet you for a drink and let you pick my brain. One thing I absolutely can't stand are flakes and people who are in this lifestyle for the wrong reas. As Larry Flynt of Hustler says, "Relax, it's just sex!". As simple as this statement may sound, it is profound to me in the sense that it speaks volumes to the reality that most of us are here to add something to our lives, not replace something and by understanding each others boundaries and having mutual respect for one another, we can all have a wonderful time. I can be your friend, your mentor, or just your every day, college-going, blog-writing, fuck-buddy. Whatever the rea maybe for you (or you guys in the case that you are a couple) to contact me, I promise that you will have an amazing time and will be treated with the utmost dignity and respect. Unless of course you want me to call you my "dirty little cock-" while fucking you doggy-style, but that's another story! I always respond to any serious email inquiries and whether or not I think we would be compatible, I sincerely thank you for taking the time to read my profile and email me. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. My Ideal Per: Ideal people to me are those who understand why they are in this lifestyle and who realize that this is a mutual undertaking in which both parties should be comfortable. With that said, I'm looking for drama-free women and couples who are real and genuine. I emphasize the word "real" to highlight the fact that the computer is essentially an elaborate facade. You can never be completely sure who is behind the profile. All I ask is that you be honest and up-front with me and ask questions if you are unsure of something. Most importantly, don't lie - it will only complicate things. Sadly, I have found that there are a significant number of people on this site who misrepresent themselves or that aren't serious about their stated intentions and thus are essentially time wasters. If you are one of these people, please leave me out of your game. I'd rather masturbate to Busty Vixens 2. I'm as real as it gets and ask that you be too.

My Ideal Person I enjoy people that are intelligent and sexually charged! The lifestyle has led me to meet some very great people, and I'm looking forward to seeing what else it may bring to the table

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
There is this beautiful woman that is out on the town with
a group of her friends...of which all of them are swingers
that happen to be enjoying a group outing. We happen to exchange
glances across the bar as we start to play the "game"
with me not knowing she's a single bi-sexual nymphomaniac
that loves to have a good time with her "friends"
(couples, women and a couple of choice men). She wasn't
out to pick up anybody at the bar mainly because she was going
to have her fun with her private friends back at one of their
houses already. Amazingly, while her friends are having
drinks and a good time, I managed to strike up a conversation
which really turns out to be more than just a conversation
as we started talking more in depth about our personal lives...finding
out that we're both swingers. It's a big dance
club with enough dark corners that hands, fingers and lips
are free to roam around without having to worry about being
kicked out for indecent exposure...which is exactly what
this bombshell of a woman and I proceed to provide a bit of...invade
each other on the dance floor. Eventually, she introduces
me to her other friends and I'm invited back to party
with them until the sun comes up in the of
the most wild orgies I've ever been a part of.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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  • 41 / male
  • Canton, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: January 14, 1982
Travels to: springfield, Illinois
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Single
Height: 6 ft 2 in / 187-190 cm
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Some grad school
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Agnostic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Long/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, Spanish
Hair Color: Platinum Blonde
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Hazel
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