We are the nerdy and shy type but once we get to know people we open up a lot. She is more shy than he is and very reserved, but once she is comfortable she is one of the most fun people you will ever be around. We both love to please and we both love to try new things. We also both play solo with guys, girls and other couples. She likes to get to know people before anything happens. So please be ok with chatting some. I know people like to quickly hookup but that is not us. We love to play but she needs to establish something with you before she will be interested. This is very important and basically means if you cannot talk to us you will not meet with us. Pretty simple.

My Ideal Person We are pretty open to meeting all types of people and we really want to try just about everything at least once. We are interested in single guys, single bi/bi-curious females, and couples.

Please also NO SMOKERS.

We have gotten really picky over the years with single males that we meet with. We are mainly looking for single (yes we actually mean truly single, not playing on the side or with permission) males that are non pushy, like to please and able to actually talk to us not just expect a quick hookup. We have kids so we have to plan ahead some so please respect that. We understand and respect anyone's decision to smoke but we do not enjoy playing with smokers in this lifestyle. It's just one of those things we have come to learn over the years.

We love intelligence as well as physical attraction. If you can impress through talking, as in you can hold a conversation, that would go a long way towards getting into bed with us.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I want to watch my wife have her way with another man or woman.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No not really, we only want real down to earth people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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