Living life, loving it.... I'm a stoic and a freespirit... My head is on straight and securely attached.. I'm an intellectual and humorous guy looking for a lady who can match that. I love music, cooking and writing. If you're seeking a genuine sweet guy with a fiery side for good conversation, a good meal or good adventure then I may be your cup of tea. If what you seek is more than that...then let me paint a picture... I'm what you might call a sensitive rebel...or a bad boy with a heart of gold...or a highly intelligent dumbass... Ergo, I am an oxymoron. I have a soft heart and a deep soul. I write poetry, I loved my mother dearly and am very much so a feminist. Flip the coin however and you'll find the villain in my duality. There was a time I was a hardened criminal, there were times I took from others, times I lied for personal gain. I've been the angel and I've been the devil. I've stood on both shoulders and you know what I found?.?.?.?.? That my duality...my combination of dark and light makes me a well rounded lover, friend and partner. I'm sensual, gratifying and perversely aroused by the arousal of my partner. I give selfishly...then I taketh mercilessly, greedily and without hesitation... So I pose a question unto you...Have you ever met a hopelessly romantic sweetheart who is also a sexual deviant?

My Ideal Person Open minded, intelligent and uninhibited. I like a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to tell me so. At the same time I like a woman who likes to let me explore her body. I'm into sensual foreplay, mapping the body of my partner and stimulating every inch of her skin. I like to please, and my willing partner should like to receive, she should not feel ashamed that a large amount of the attention will fall on her in the early stages of our fun. Whether she likes it rough, soft, quick, slow or on top or bottom, my partner should be ready for a process. I'm not trying to fuck and bang....it's a process. I would hope any lady would be ready to receive all I can offer, unveiling it at a slow burn pace, not rushed. Maybe this doesn't make a whole lot of sense, maybe it does...maybe you just need to find out for yourself....my ideal woman will want to be pleasured, adored and nurtured through a sensual kinkfest that will leave her surely appeased

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
The Beatles to Cage the Elephant and everything in between

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I was 13 once. I practically had sex with everyone in my mind

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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