Happily recently separated, as the pending ex and I have decided friendship and amicable co-parenting is our best course considering how different we really are. Other than the fact that I'm no longer on here in secret as a philandering husband not much else has changed for me LOL! I still don't want to change your situation or mine, and I still seek a real physical and mental connection with a FWB rather than bed-hopping and manwhoring. The "Friend" part of "Friend With Benefits" is definitely essential; if we can't enjoy pillow-talk and a giggle and a cuddle in between sweaty sessions, the sessions themselves aren't nearly as titillating are they?!? My bare bones truth is I LOVE to make the girl I'm with cum!!!! A mutual attraction obviously is required to start, but if/when things progress my focus is solely on getting her drenched and curling her toes, because my greatest bone-tingling orgasmic pleasure is derived by knowing the same feeling is being felt simultaneously by my partner. I already knew all the right buttons to push to make wifey gush, but ended up on AFF because of the ever-present desire to find the right buttons for lovers that I'm less accustomed to pleasing. Now the ability to further explore without the scheduling conflicts and the self-guilt of "sneaking around" has me excited! The nervous thrill of meeting females unfamiliar and feeling a mutual attraction/connection, seeing sparks and then exploring every inch of her inside and out to turn the sparks into an orgasmic wildfire is the adventure I seek. I'm humbly confident but never bordering on cocky! I'm told and consider myself reasonably attractive while having no illusions of being a pretty-boy Brad Pitt! I'm fit, athletic and strong, but not a musclebound gym rat! I'm clean, but need a shower after sweating at work or on the sports-field or rink! I LOVE eating pussy! (assuming she's clean too LOL!) I've got a rock-hard ample cock that I've never been told is lacking, but won't claim I'm hung like a either! I LOVE making love, but also LOVE long passionate fuck sessions, best yet is a lot of both! I'll do (almost) whatever it takes to blow her mind and blow her load! And to top it off, I've always been told that I'm really fun, honest, interesting company even in between the times I'm busy in between her thighs! I'll always do my best to make sure she couldn't ask for more! But if she did I'd prob still find some way to give it to her! I'd love to start off by having a chat here to explore a possible connection, but not too comfortable sharing much on AFF in the way of personal pics or information. If you'd rather give me a kick I'm "bujnik" there; I'm tend to be much more willing to share much more intimate thoughts and images that way. Let's get exploring shall we?

My Ideal Person A sweet, honest, attractive lady who appreciates a bit of sarcastic humor and doesn't take anything too seriously, life is too short for that right?

Being of AgoraCosmopolitan Dating has opened my eyes to the fact that there are far more bi females AND males out there than I realized, AND far more couples in the "lifestyle" than I ever could have imagined, which is AWESOME! I was never able to come close to convincing my ex to explore being with anyone but me!

While I hold no negative judgement about (and in fact applaud!) men who are bi or curious I'm definitely very straight. But I'm also open to the idea of and interested in meeting couples who are looking into MFM situations. I always wished my prior relationship allowed for at least the investigation of a swap/group scenario but it never could, so I obviously don't have a "F" to contribute to a MFMF couple's swing/swap. But in my "prior life" I've been in some MFM fun, and very much admire (and envy!) the couples who are open to bringing that situational excitement into their relationship.

If the spark and respect between all parties is evident, I would be a (slightly nervous at first haha) very willing (and respectful of relationship) third party in maximizing a special lady's pleasure by joining her hubby/partner in delivering it! Being straight and not bi-curious at all doesn't mean I'm scared to get up close and personal with a bro in order to take her to that next ecstatic level. If the respect and connection is there, then great times for all!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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