[SIZE 4][COLOR purple]30. female. arizona. So I am back. Some things haven't changed, but some have. 3yrs older, wiser, divorced with a now. But I still want the same things as before. Thought I had found it, but obviously I was wrong. I will start by telling you what I am *not* looking for. This is a time of new beginnings, and obviously I didn't make myself clear in the past. I am not looking to be someone's mistress, or a one night stand, I do not want to be one of many "toys" that you have to call on when the desire so strikes you. I am looking for one partner, that I can see, whenever the need hits me... or that knows he can call me, when ever he wants... I need a partner that is comfortable with swinging, but with select couples or females, not which ever spreads their legs the fastest. Maybe I am looking for what I can't have, but oh-well. I won't settle for less, I want all, or nothing. I am comfortable in who I am, I like what I see when I look in the mirror. I have multiple tats and piercings, and while I tend to be submissive in the bedroom, I know what I want, and am not easily pushed around. I am looking for a man who can keep up with me. Both in the bedroom, and out of the bedroom. I don't have time for games, I am a full time mom, work full time, and a full time student. But I still want to have fun. [/COLOR][/SIZE]

My Ideal Person I am looking for someone who can get dirty in the bedroom, but isn't ashamed to be seen with me in public... Someone who plays as hard as they work. Basically looking for a guy who respects me, and what I want, but at the same time isn't afraid to go for what he wants, or tell me no, if he thinks it is necessary. While I am not looking for the love of my life, if a relationship happens, I am not going to freak. But at the same time, if nothing happens, then deal with it and move on. Either you are compatible or you aren't. There is no in between anymore. And under no circumstances will I be one of *many* women. Like I said, I will not be your fling, or your mistress. I will be the only one you are fucking, unless we agree to bring other women or couples in. If you think you can handle me, you know how to find me.