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chicago8x6 56 / M
"smart, straightforward pleaser"
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chicago8x6 56/M
Chicago, Illinois
I'm a smart, straightforward guy, who loves to indulge in all that life has to offer. Good people, good food, good conversation, good music, and most of all, good sex. I'm in good shape, and I like to take my time pleasing a woman. What, like I've got something better to do? Sexually, I enjoy giving pleasure as much as taking it, sometimes more. I will do what it takes to put a smile on your face. And if you're into the big cocks, I have the total cure for your vaginal emptiness. Let me scratch your deepest itch! Also, I do like to show what I've got on cam sometimes. It's real, all eight fat inches... see for yourself. That said, being hung is not an ego trip for me. I've dated women who loved it, and women who didn't. I understand the importance of the motion, but if 'size does matter' to you, I've got you covered. I love to kiss. It's not really optional for me. If you want impersonal sex, I'm not your man. Getting-to-know-you, kissing, touching, and affection are part of the deal with me. But affection does not entail possession for me. Friends with benefits is a great way to go. I am a fully grown-ass man. I have my own place. I understand consent pretty well. You are safe with me: say no to me without fear, say yes without shame. Disease free, drug free, drama free, addiction free. I'm not 420 unfriendly. All things in moderation. BTW, guys: sorry, but I'm really not interested in play with other guys. Not a phobe, just not interested. If your girlfriend wants me to do something with you, she'll have to be... very persuasive. Otherwise your emails will be deleted.

My Ideal Person I'm open to more and less serious things. If you are looking for a relationship, we can certainly talk about that. If you need someone to be close to for a night, I can be there for you. I'm not super kinky, but I am open to new experiences (but if you can swallow me whole, I might propose marriage on the spot. No one's ever done that.)

I like intelligence. I like open, compassionate minds. I like curves. Curves are more important than build--you can be skinny and curvy, you can be muscular and curvy, you can be big and curvy... just have a waistline. Big girls with big boobs are delightful.

Hard boundaries:

Couples: we are all going to have to get to know each other before anything happens. I have gotten into... bad situations with couples. It's a long story, but it's not happening again.

I have a girlfriend. We are exploring poly. If you meet me, she will know. I'm not messing around 'behind her back,' because she and I communicate about these things. I am a lucky man, and I am not fucking that up. The unicorn thing is a possibility, but not soon.

That also means condoms. I'm fluid bonded with someone else. I'm not going to raw dog with you on the first date, or for a long time, if ever.

Little pet peeves:

I'm a guy. you have to be pretty damn stupid for me to turn you down on those grounds. But there are little things that will make me take you less seriously... like:

Wanting a 'discrete' relationship. I'm a math geek. If you want a 'discreet' relationship, I'll know exactly what you mean. If you want a 'discrete' relationship, I'm going to need to know how you want to quantize our affections. There is a difference. Look it up.

And if you want to 'sew' your wild oats, I will still fuck you, but I'll also ridicule you openly. Maybe while I'm fucking you.

Not giving what you expect to get. 'I hate when men only want to talk about themselves.' Then we meet and I realize, that's because you only want to talk about yourself. Ooops. Well, if you're hot, I'll still fuck you: after all, I'm a guy. But if curiosity doesn't go in both directions, it's hard to sustain.

Spontaneity is not my strong suit. I'm a busy person, and my life doesn't revolve around getting laid. If you're horny and you wanna fuck now, especially way out in tall corn country, that's not going to happen. Maybe I can get out there this weekend. Maybe. A calendar can be a sex toy. Learn to appreciate anticipation.

I'm a respectful, patient guy. I expect the same in return. Work with me, I'll work with you, and we'll have lots of fun. Just not, you know, this minute.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Lyle Lovett, Bach, John Coltrane, The Breeders, The Pixies,
Mozart, Beck, Bjork, Johnathan Richman

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I used to work out at a gym that had frosted glass windows
into some of the showers. It would be so hot to bend someone
over against one of those.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Pussy Shaving

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not that into celebrities. Juliette Binoche is kinda hot,

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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  • 56 / male
  • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: July 1, 1967
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Some grad school
Occupation: code monkey
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Buddhist/Taoist
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Very long/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Receding
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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