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catspajamashave 33 / F
"Look in your pants and count your penises... If you even have one that's still too many!!!"
Bournemouth, Dorset, United Kingdom
 
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catspajamashave 33/F
Bournemouth, Dorset , United Kingdom
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Introduction
[bg bgcolor=white][font face=Calibri][color black] [center] [bling 727575][size 6] Hi, I'm Cat [/size][bling 727574] [size 6] welcome to my profile [/size] [/center] [hr] [center] [bling 727597] [size 2][i]Hi I'm Cat[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]Hello my name is Cat, well technically its '[i]Catherine[/i]', but I prefer Cat. And I guess here technically it's '[i]CatsPajamasHave[/i]' (Which in the unlikely event anyone is interested in the derivation of is part of a line from a ren's book '[i]Cats pajamas have night time adventures[/i]' however it got cut short due to the username character limit) but once again I prefer Cat :D [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727581] [size 2][i]So, a little about me...[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]So a little about me and why I'm here: I'm shy, awkward, clumsy and bashful. I suffer from depression and anxiety. I come here because it is an escape, it is a window to a world where I can be who I want to be not who I am... If that makes sense? :? [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727599] [size 2][i]Just me being shy[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]I'm not really looking for anything, When I joined I was, but circumstances have changed and I'm only really sticking around because I have made some good friends on here, I enjoy the blogging on here and most of all I love having an outlet for my exhibitionist side which I'd be far too shy to indulge in the real world :">[/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727588] [size 2][i]And me being a little braver[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]That being said I haven't entirely written off the possibility of meeting someone, although please be aware it would be a big leap for me. My anxiety means I get panicky just chatting on here, and I still get nervous going out to meet people I'm already friends with, so if ever I do make the step from online to anything real it would only be after talking on here for long enough for me to feel comfortable :-w[/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727584] [size 2][i]Getting nervous just chatting[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]Oh and it's probably worth mentioning all of the above applies to ladies only, past experience has taught me most men won't read this far and will try anyway, so maybe it's not technically worth mentioning... But whether or not there is any point in saying it I'd feel remiss if I wasn't upfront and clear about it :)) [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727587] [size 2][i]Ladies only for this body please[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]I have listed myself as bisexual since I still think that is technically true, although I'm really only interested in ladies right now. I think '[i]Mentally bi; Physically gay[/i]' sums it up best. I still occasionally catch myself checking out hot guys, and I haven't definitely decided no men ever again, but for now I'm definitely only interested in the girls :x [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727589] [size 2][i]Once again: Ladies only please[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]So primarily I'm here for myself, for blogging and chatting, but if I do any looking I will be looking for ladies for online friends, casual meets or one night stands, and possibly non-committal friends with benefits... I'm definitely not looking for anything serious or long term :* [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727579] [size 2][i]Mostly just here to write and show off[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]Now that I've briefly covered what I am looking for, I guess I should cover what I'm not looking for, right? I mean perally I kind of assumed it was implied that anyone who didn't fit into the '[i]looking for[/i]' criteria would assume they were what I wasn't looking for.... But apparently not :/ [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727593] [size 2][i]Covering up a bit...[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]So what I'm not looking for: Ladies who have a female profile, but upon reading the opening paragraph says something like "[i]Me and my boyfriend are looking for...[/i]" Sorry love, that makes you a couple! I don't consider myself an intellectual snob but if you can't tell the difference between 'Female' and 'Couple' I don't think we'll be compatible! Couples in general, this one is kind of tough as I've seen some profiles with stunning ladies that say the female plays alone, but the fact I can never be sure which one of you I'm talking to bothers me and triggers my anxiety, so sorry you're out too. Oh and of course a special mention to all those 'Couples' where it only ever seems to be the guy online alone :? [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727596] [size 2][i]Wondering why your profile doesn't match description[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]And of course men! I don't know why this bit needs explaining but apparently it does! You know where it says '[i]Looking for...[/i] and I selected '[i]Women[/i]'? Then again above where I typed out that I was only interested in ladies? Well neither of these were a joke or a mistake or whatever you seem to assume! So please take a look in you pants and count your penises (Penises or Penii?)... If there is even one that is still too many :)) [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727598] [size 2][i]How many penises do you have?[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]And that is a hard rule! No, it's size won't change my mind. No, it is not some kind of magic wand that could 'cure' me! No I don't want to see it, half the time I already have since most of you choose to make a nice close-up of it as your profile photo! And trust me, if your best feature, the thing you choose to show off as your profile pic is something that looks like somebody tried to make a sock puppet of a slug then congratulations you've just managed to make me even more of a lesbian :)) [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727595] [size 2][i]Mostly just here to write and show off[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]Oh and lastly but by no means leastly ('Leastly' is a word right?) anyone who has made no effort both with their profile and with proving who they are. I like to read profiles before talking with someone to find out if we have anything in common, if yours is a blank page I likely won't bother. And this site seems to be a wash with fake profiles, so given how easy it is to verify, or upload a variety of photos, or whatever else you can do to prove you're you I'm afraid I get suspicious and mistrusting of near blank profiles. I know many people say they don't for the sake of anonymity but seriously, this is a dating / hook-up site, so come on flower, what do you intend to do when you meet someone? Halloween mask? Paper bag of your head? Add 'must be blind' to your 'looking for' criteria? :0 [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727590] [size 2][i]If we're gonna chat I'd like to know who you are[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]So in summary: No men. No couples. No women who actually are couples. No 'women' who probably aren't women. No blank profiles. No pictureless profiles unless you send me a message with a photo before chatting... That being said part of why I'm here in to battle my anxiety and try to be more sociable so I'm happy to chat with anyone (Regardless of fulfilment of above criteria) in chat rooms etc. Just please don't mistake my friendliness for anything more than that :) [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727578] [size 2][i]I know, I know, I can be a fussy bitch haha[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]OK, so that is what I am looking for, and what I'm not looking for, I guess I should say a bit about myself now, right? So as I said above I'm shy, anxious and timid, a big part of why I came here was to fight this. It gives me an outlet to explore sides of myself I'd never dare face in real life, and it gives me somewhere to chat and be friendly and try to force myself to be more sociable (Although even safely hidden behind my computer screen I still get nervous and panicky so if I run away mid-conversation please forgive me) :( [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727594] [size 2][i]Enjoying and outlet for my exhibitionist side[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]So I'm hoping this site will give me an outlet for the more risque side of me... With that in mind please comment on my pics, I'll try to upload lots as I want to be seen and show-off, but honestly my heart is racing every time I add one, and if I say 'Hi' you should feel flattered if I open the conversation it's a safe bet I'm sweating and trembling lol :)) [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727592] [size 2][i]A few of my favourite things[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]So a few things I like: Well, cats obviously... Especially big cats, I love jaguars, leopards and tigers. I can watch videos of them for hours they are just so cool! Other favourite animals are lizards, owls and penguins. I like superheroes and comic book stuff. I love reading, mostly classics and fairytales (I love fairy stories) I love the outdoors but I'm not a fan of the sun or the heat so usually hang out somewhere shady like a forest. I also love music, most genres and most eras from classical through to current. Ummm.... Oh and underwear, I don't have much in the way of hobbies but if I was pushed to name one I guess my ever growing amount of underwear makes 'Collecting knickers' a contender... That's a recognised 'hobby' right? :? [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727585] [size 2][i]Flashing my panties[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]So I think that pretty much covers enough of an introduction to me, if there is anything else you'd like to know please feel free to ask :D [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727586] [size 2][i]Wondering if my plan of interweaving photos to get people to read has actually worked?[/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [size 4]And last but not least if you message or talk to me tell me the colour of the underwear you're wearing lol I mean partly because I'm probably imagining you in your underwear if I'm replying (giggles) but also it will show me you actually read my profile and paid attention ;) [/size] [hr] [center] [bling 727580] [size 2][i]And since fair is fair... It's light green for me [/i][/size] [/center] [hr] [center] [size 4][b]So.... If you've read all the way down to here and still think we're a good match then I'll be waiting in my bedroom[/B][/size] ;) [Bling 704332][Bling 704333][Bling 704334][Bling 704335][Bling 704336][Bling 704337] [Bling 704338][Bling 704339][Bling 704340][Bling 704341][Bling 704342][Bling 704343] [Bling 704344][Bling 704345][Bling 704346][Bling 704347][Bling 704348][Bling 704349] [/center] [center][SIZE 2]{=} [COLOR indigo][member catspajamashave My Profile] 🐱 [post 4106808] 🐱 [group 243346 My Group][/COLOR] {=}[/SIZE][/center] [/color][/font][/bg]

My Ideal Person


My ideal person? Female and just looking for a little fun... But able to take things slowly. I'm only really here for myself, not with the expectation or even desire of meeting anyone. But I'm happy to make friends, and if we really hit it off I may think about meeting in the future. However it would just be sex or friends with benefits, not looking for a relationship or any kind of commitment.














Since you've read so far... Have a 'thank-you' lapdance haha





In summary: I'm only really here to stay in touch with friends, share my photos and videos, and work on my blog. As to interaction with other people chats on here is all I want for the time being, and a slim possibility of either one night stands or short term FWBs is all I'm likely to consider looking for in the future. No guys or couples for anything other than friendly conversation, if we happen to be in the same room at the same time I'll talk to you but that is all




Thank-you for visiting my profile,
and taking the time to read it!
Love ~ Cat



And since I'm mostly here to blog, here's an index of my blog posts, please check them out I'd love to have more blog followers




My Blog: This page, a listing of all my blog posts with a brief description of each post and what's in it.

And everybody tells me that its cool to be a cat: My profile posted as a blog post for the benefit of those who can't see it as a profile.

Listen do you want to know a secret Do you promise not to tell: Ask me anything! A post with all comments hidden so you can ask me a question in private and I'll update the post with my answer.

A real hero and a real human being: My verification photos... And a (mildly) sarcastic tutorial of how to do it since so many people don't but I quite like knowing people are real!

Whats new pussy cat: Since my name and my username are both Cat, it seemed only right to add some sexy kitty-cat dress up pics.

These boots were made for walking: Part one of showing off some shoes and stripping out of black lingerie.

You should smile look so surprised while I light a fire in your new shoes: Part two of showing off some shoes and stripping out of black lingerie.

My odds are stacked Ill go back to black: Part three of showing off some shoes and stripping out of black lingerie.

Well Im back, back in black: Part four of showing off some shoes and stripping out of black lingerie.

Trying hard not to please anyone all the time being a rebel is fine: Part five of showing off some shoes and stripping out of black lingerie.

I like a girl in uniform, school uniform: Part one of my school girl dress up story.

Rock rock rock n roll high school: Part two of my school girl dress up story.

Schools out for summer, schools out forever: Part three of my school girl dress up story.

Oh howd you get so mean This is the only way dirty girls stay clean: Part one of my showertime post.

Shower your love on me you dont need a reason why: Part two of my showertime post.

Red alert red alert its a catastrophe: Part one of my red body suit post.

Little red Corvette baby youre much too fast: Part two of my red body suit post.

Nobody knows where you are how near or how far shine on you crazy diamond: Showing off a my butt plugs.

{=} My Profile 🐱 My Blog 🐱 My Group {=}




What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Again too many to list.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
There are plenty of celebrities I find hot, but I prefer
to fantasise about 'real' people

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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Information
  • 33 / female
  • Bournemouth, Dorset, United Kingdom
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: November 6, 1988
Hometown: Bournemouth, Dorset, United Kingdom
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type: Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Graphic Designer
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: No
Want Children: Prefer not to say
Bra Size: 32 / 70 B
Speaks: English, n/a
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None
My Trophy Case: