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bigvj60431 68 / M
"Looking for discreet fun daytimes preferred"
Joliet, Illinois, United States
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Member Since: August 27, 2008

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bigvj60431 68/M
Joliet, Illinois
As this place seems to be getting full of fake profiles and scams and no ladies seem serious about meeting, I am not renewing!
STANDARD MEMBERS ARE OK TO CONTACT ME!!! Hello all! Straight white man here who plays without his spouse. Long story but lets not get in to it. If that is not your thing, I respect that and thanks for looking so far! If you are going to get judgmental on me, then I'd prefer you to keep it to yourself, thank you. Respectful, attentive, very oral and a good conversationalist. I love women who are women and ladies when it comes to dress and public manners. But what happens behind closed doors is an added plus! Ladies you can be straight or bi, color and body type are not a big deal. Non smokers preferred but hey as long as you don't smoke DURING sex I am good! Also, if I say hello or send a message, please be courteous and respond and do not let your autoresponse be your only response. Courtesy above all!! I have had a few attempted contacts from gay males, bi males etc. Gentlemen, thanks but no thanks. I clearly state I am a heterosexual man. Good luck in your searches!

My Ideal Person She is confident, smart, maintains herself as a woman and is interesting to speak with and to laugh with. She is feminine but not a high maintenance priss. Alluring but not trashy.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Me enjoying a nice drink at a bar. I spot a woman across the
bar. She is with a couple of her friends and the one with whom
I make eye contact comes over to me and asks me if I'd
be interested in spending the evening including dinner
with them as they do not want to be alone all night. Dinner
then to a hotel where we proceed to please one another all
night and only exchange first names.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 68 / male
  • Joliet, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: May 1, 1955
Hometown: Chicago - South side, Illinois
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Married
Height: 6 ft 0 in / 182-185 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We do not live together.
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: No
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Salt and Pepper
Hair Length: Medium
Eye Color: Hazel
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
My Trophy Case: