it is very obviously not common knowledge that members such as myself who are standard or non-paying members can not respond to standard messages and instant messages. If I am online you will find me in the free chat room of either the bath house or the gender exchange room. You can go to either of those two free chat rooms and click on the room roster accessing the entire list of people who are in the room by clicking or tapping on the number that is in parentheses at the top of the page. if I'm in either of those two rooms you'll see me on the room roster and then just send a quick message saying hi and I'll see it and we can chat for free.Bisexual vers. Seeking kind lady for long-term relationship. A lady that enjoys wearing a strap-on and using it on her man would be very nice.