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bdbler 42 / M
"Everybody wang chung tonight!"
Apex, North Carolina, United States
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bdbler 42/M
Apex, North Carolina
Describe who you are...well here it goes. I am a silly guy and always like to joke around. Like to chat and talk about anything. I can be a sarcastic smart ass sometimes and am a phenomenal dancer (if I do say so myself). Oh, and I am pretty When it comes to hitting on a women I can lay it on as thick as I am more into the little things when it comes to sex. Like kissing, touching, licking, and teasing. That is the really good stuff. The most important thing when with a women is to make her feel amazing. Open your ears and listen to what they want and like. If you can do that, then you are in for a treat.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
One of my fantasies is to meet a couple at a hotel bar. We chat
over a few drink and I flirt with the wife. We are all having
a good time and really clicking. I then ask hubby if I can
take his wife up to a the room and please her. As me and wifey
are in the room hubby is at the bar having a drink. I would
like to really turn wifey on and please her any way she wants.
I then go down stairs to the bar. Have a drink with hubby tell
him how hot his wife is and how turned on she is. After the
drink he goes up to the room to to finish off this wife and
she fills him in on everything we did.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, My parents' front lawn, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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  • 42 / male
  • Apex, North Carolina, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Women or Couples (2 women)
Birthdate: April 11, 1981
Travels to: Boca Raton, Florida
Hometown: Mount Sinai, New York, United States
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Associate degree (2 years college)
Occupation: Engineering
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Catholic
Have Children: No
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Thick
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Brown
Glasses or Contacts: Either