Some thoughts to note: • If you lack a profile picture or fit outside my extremely narrow parameters (especially about age - between early 30s to 50 MAX), your message is deleted. Don't waste my time. • I have some expectations/physical needs that require me to be very picky. If you smoke - anything at all, ever, including when you're not in my presence (and I will know, because I am neither stupid nor not mindful of the signals my body sends me), don't waste my time. • I am scary good in bed. I am also not your model-next-door type. My face is gorgeous, my pussy is magical, and my body is lush and perfect. If you are so closed-minded that you expect a woman in her 40s who has the kind of seasoning that only those years can provide AND someone with nothing better to do than maintain her unnaturally-healthy HS body, don't waste my time. • For the big babies and misogynists who can't handle not fitting into MY criteria for whom I will allow access to MY bed, sorry. I am sure you can find someone to harass who doesn't have self esteem. • Because it is now That kind of world *sigh* - MAGgots, you need not apply. QAnoners, conspiracy theorists, incels, Oath Keepers, Proud Boys, and anyone who believes that today's GOP has any claim on respectability or a sense of duty to its purported ideals - same. I accept men into my bed who are FULLY VACCINATED and can prove it, who have a healthy view of science (as performed by scientists, not "scientists" - think facts vs "alternative facts" 👍 ), who receive their news from a wide variety of credible news sources (that list includes the NYT and WaPo, The Atlantic, New York Magazine, The New Yorker, PBS, many of the local news outlets that are still family-or-unicorn-owned and not under the thumb of Sinclair Broadcasting, a wide variety of digital-only outlets like ProPublica, and other outlets that use human people journalists who do reporting and tell the truth - even when it sounds like a judgment because calling a lie a lie is not, in fact, unobjective reporting), who have empathy and compassion for the plight of others and do not attempt to mansplain or whitesplain others' lived experiences, and who live with the kind of integrity and honesty worth rewarding. You are an exceedingly small group, and yet I am willing to wait. Most of my friends would say I have a quirky, fun, creative personality. When it comes to physical health, I get my exercise through lifestyle activities (from vacuuming to gardening and landscaping to bicycling to dancing), and I am not super picky about my sex partners' fitness level. That does NOT mean I want to fuck a big boy: dad bods are sexy af on some men. I REALLY prefer men who are at least 5'10", and anyone above 6'1" is likely to experience me climbing you like a monkey. I dislike the bar scene. I prefer not to party when I'm involved in sexual encounters. I like my partners to tell me how to be your equal in the bedroom - with the ability to switch it up on occasion because being tied up is fun sometimes. I prefer to feel on equal footing as regards our power dynamic, even if I'm playacting as your sub. I love sex, and I'm interested in whatever kind of relationship happens with whomever I meet. In the bedroom, I tend to like really, really delicious vanilla sex with the occasional swing on the wild side. I will DEFINITELY not just lay there. Some of my favorite positions are doggy, spooning morning wood, upright cowgirl, and whatever else sounds good at the moment. I prefer one-on-one sex, but wouldn't mind trying it with another man in the room, especially if the two of you are interested in playing together. I'm occasionally willing to try some light bondage or blindfolds.

My Ideal Person I'm straight.
I'm not interested in exploring sex with another woman - at all.
I'm looking for someone who can be discreet because... I live in a small town and am divorced with kids. However, if the chemistry is there, and a relationship forms, I will introduce you.
I don't consider myself kinky, but I would like to try... ? It depends what I learn as I go.
The only taboo I have in the bedroom is... talk to me; they are ultra-specific and related to PTSD.
As far as I'm concerned, the best place to have sex is awake. 😏 I like fucking EVERYWHERE it occurs.
Extramarital affairs - not gonna lie and say I haven't been the other woman. Sometimes it's a huge turn-on
One sexual fantasy I've always had is... "meeting" in a restaurant's bar, getting hot & heavy sitting right there, and making it exceedingly obvious what will happen as soon as we walk out the door.
My feelings on one-night stands are... when can you get here?
During sex or a romantic evening, I prefer to listen to... almost anything! There's something to be said for the thumping beats of that set a nice pace and the croony r&b or pop that makes an interlude feel romantic.
Sensuality - like touching and candles and massage - really adds to the experience of sex.
Foreplay depends on the person. Please know where a g-spot is and how to stimulate it while also going easy on the clit (but not ignoring it).
I like some foreplay and on occasion going straight to penetration. It all depends on the ability to talk dirty and get me wound up before I/you arrive.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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